just leave if our partners cheated..?
or is that just easy to say as a first/knee jerk response ...?
Apart from Zenmaster ... would anyone forgive...?
Would anyone stay if they had no kids..?
2007-03-11 04:08:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Good for u niceman...
2007-03-11 04:58:38 · update #1
Cherriepie... lol
2007-03-13 02:16:52 · update #2
Basket... hmmmmmmmmmn
2007-03-13 02:20:55 · update #3
I'd like to think that I would leave, but I'm not entirely sure.
2007-03-11 04:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kirsty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would leave after I kneed him where it hurts, I wouldn't stay even if we do have kids because they don't need to go through a life thinking that their parents are "perfect", and let their father date his girlfriend while we still stay just for the kids. I might forgive, it all depends on what kind of a mood I am in, or how long he was cheating on me. But God is good so far my boyfriend has been very good to me, unlike my last one who did cheat on me, and trust me he was in pain when I found out. I kneed him where it hurts, said my goodbyes, told him that I think it was the wrong thing, but left and never looked back on it.
2007-03-11 11:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay: there is one camp that thinks that it's okay because it's just sex and meaningless at that and if you deeply love your partner then it shouldn't matter.The other camp feels that sex is a deep bond of emotional, physical ,spiritual trust between two people who are partners that when violated, undermines this trust. You may still love the offending partner however the relationship has changed.
I have known lots of philandering men(married, who have wanted to philander with me and many others) and I 've seen the devastation in their wake and they don't change. So if a partner wants to suffer through all of that time and time again, well that's just too self-sacrificing and masochistic and ultimately selfish in a way. I would have to go with the second camp. Besides if I had a partner that I was deeply in love with and they did this too me I'd hire a hit man to do him in. JUST KIDDING
2007-03-11 11:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about anyone else but I would definitely leave my spouse if he cheated. I don't believe there is ANY excuse for cheating. There's no reason good enough to justify cheating. I would eventually forgive my spouse for cheating because despite the fact that he cheated I would still have love for him. With or without kids I would leave.
2007-03-11 11:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd forgive my husband, but I would probably never trust him again.
And if it happened again, after the first time he cheated, I wouldn't leave because of my son.
The third time, I kill him, lol.
But I don't give him a reason to leave... I cook and clean and take care of the kids, while he works all day. And I give EXCELLENT massages and...everything else.
I talk to him and discuss everything with him, having no secrets and keeping up good lines of communication.
2007-03-11 11:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lauran B. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't leave - he'd leave!
I'd also be amicable if we split up over anything other, though if it was cheating I would take everything I could get - I have a child to consider dont cha know!
Never forgive and certainly never forget - memory of an elephant!
2007-03-11 11:12:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.
I don't think anyone really knows until they're in that situation. I put up with my ex cheating because I was pregnant and I wanted my child to have him in her life, then realized that I could stay there forever and she'd grow up without a father anyway- even if they shared a home- because he did not WANT to be a dad.
Different situations beg different solutions. It's hard to say what you'd do or judge others for their actions until you've lived that one out.
2007-03-11 11:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by Jen F 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been there. I thought I would leave immediately. I was in love and gave the jerk another chance. It only happened again. By the 3rd strike, I said YOU'RE OUT!, and I stuck to it.
2007-03-11 11:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to forgive but in the end the resentment built up and up. I left in the end and its the best thing I ever did.
I initialy stayed for the sake of our son...big mistake, he and I are so much happier now
2007-03-11 11:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would leave.
I have seen too many couples stay together for the kids and it makes it worse.
2007-03-11 11:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋