Ok so my boyfriend and I have always had great sex since I can remember(We've been together for a year and a half).But lately he has had trouble even getting hard and when he does he cant keep it for very long.About two weeks ago he started getting extremely excited and sex started getting shorter and but I never said anything because I didnt want to " hurt his ego." Then I noticed he started to not even want sex anymore and would turn me down which has never happened before.I know it had to do with him being insecure but now that were having sex again, he cant even stay hard long enough for either of us to enjoy sex. I've tried to keep it fun by buying sex position book and even bought a vibrator that he loves to use on me but it still hasnt helped. Can some one gives me ideas on what to do next?
2007-03-11 04:07:27 · 13 answers · asked by ♥sexy_love♥ 5 in Health ➔ Men's Health
i am extremely naughty and always love trying new things and i always wear something sexy and different to keep it fun <3 and no im not fat or ugly
2007-03-16 03:32:41 · update #1
Give him a chance to go to a urologist
High blood preassure
stress
guilt
depression
low self esteem
smoking
overweight
diabeties
cholesterol
substance abuse
plus 1/2 dozen other things
2007-03-11 05:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it probably has to do withthe length of your relationship! after a year and a half, he's not as frisky as he was, he's not as excited about sex. solution? you need to spice things up!
2007-03-11 05:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by kerri c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be time for a couple of counseling sessions
2007-03-11 06:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this....but maybe he's bored with ya girl.....your being the same, doing the same stuff. As a guy, we like stuff to be new, interesting and different most of the time. (maybe thats just me, but who knows).....
do it diffenrently, if you were going slow on him everytime...get harder, if you used to only blow only half of his dick, this time....go down fully(deepthroat)......get what i mean???
finally, maybe he has some other problems, something very tensing that he may not want to tell you.....maybe he has family probs or something so he just doesnt have the mood to have sex with you sometimes......as he's girlfriend.....you should talk to him about it......
2007-03-11 05:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Cable 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You should tell him how you feel about having sex
2007-03-16 14:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that he be seen by a doctor. There are many medical conditions that can lead to erectile problems.
2007-03-11 04:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by aqx99 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You have the routine down pretty good...star for you and funny stuff for me to pass along...
2016-03-29 00:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him more attracted to you. Be more sexier and naughtier.
2007-03-15 18:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by ak47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try using foreplay on him
i advise that this will solve your problem 100%
2007-03-11 04:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
the next time he's not looking, light his pubes on fire! that oughta do something
2007-03-16 12:55:25 · answer #10 · answered by scott s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋