2007-03-11 03:14:56 · 10 answers · asked by c v 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would get a divorce so that we were both free to find a person to love. But I would accept it, what choice does a person have?
2007-03-11 03:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not much to accept. He is gay and that won't change. Some would say he has gotten married under false pretences but many people only find out they're gay late in life. An uncle of mine had four kids before he found this out, which wasn't very pleasant news for my aunt, but she accepted it, and they got divorced.
But it's okay to feel bad about it, although there usually isn't any cause to blame the other for finding this out so late. You married this person because you loved him, and you can continue to love him, but not in a physical way anymore. It won't be reciprocated in the way that you were used to.
2007-03-11 11:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jaco K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, if he is your husband in every sense of the word, he is not gay. He would be bi-sexual. Gay men have no desire for a woman in a sexual sense.
2007-03-11 10:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by why 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you accept it or not won't change the fact that he's gay.
Acceptance is a way of moving forward in your own life.
2007-03-11 10:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am very glad that my husband is gay.
2007-03-11 10:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just figured this out...lol. To think all that time you made love to your husband he was not thinking of you.
2007-03-11 10:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by Your #1 fan 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why not, as long as he share it with me haahhahah. that's life, sharing and loving,better than war and hate,right?
2007-03-11 10:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Gay or straight if your married your married, if you cheat, you shouldnt be married.
2007-03-11 11:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by leigha 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must. It isn't your choice but theirs.
2007-03-11 10:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by american horse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way!
2007-03-11 10:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by hilz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋