..cheats ...
do you play tit-for-tat ...or do you leave.?
or do you do something else ... ?
2007-03-11 03:12:52 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Thanx everyone ..
good answers ... cassandra, zenmaster,
2007-03-13 02:07:31 · update #1
I don't typically play Monopoly with him for this very reason...
2007-03-11 03:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by єЖтяα ¢яιѕρψ 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok I've been there done that wore the t-shirt
The way ive dealt with this was 2 ask my partner what ive found out and get them 2 explain don't shout at them as this would never solve anything u need 2 stay clam and talk it through if after uve talked and u think its worth saving ur relationship then try 2 take it as a learning opportunity and u both learn from the mistake.
But its really hard to trust the person once again i must b lucky as my partner hasnt cheated on me again mayb that good talking to helped him 2 relize on whats more important his fling or his girlfriend and his kids
If u don't think it will never work then leave the person but hey every 1 is different and there's no right or wrong in trying to get it sorted.
I always belive in giving the person u love a chance and if they do it again then i'd leave with the kids there b no turning back
2007-03-11 03:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by shyness 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never had a man I am with want to cheat as far as I can tell.
I have too much self worth to stay with someone who cheats, if it happened.
I am not jealous, so if a man of mine wants someone else, I am happy to let him go.
I will easily move on.
I never cheat, better to say let's be friends and part.
I am still friends with my ex boyfriends, from school days I like it that way.
I aim never to hurt anyone. It's important to me...
No, never tit for tat, a clean break is a fair way to say good bye...
2007-03-11 03:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave............tit-for-tat never works. It will be painful, and you will in a sense be using a person who has not wronged you. The best revenge is to do better than the person you are leaving.
2007-03-11 03:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by FireBug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not leave, but i would go out more with my friends, dress up so sexy, and look so beautiful, and just carry on my life but with him excluded out of it show him his actions has not faded me, and show him just how much i am still attractive to other men, even though it may hurt, i am only human, but i would not beg beseech him to stay, in fact by time i finished, he would be wondering what on earth possessed him to cheat, and he will want me so badly, i would not give him my love ever again, it would be torment for him he would be the one to leave..... so who would be the loser then?
2007-03-11 03:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I leave, but it takes ages for me to let go and stop going over and over with it in my head. Well, having said that it has only happened once, and I was only 21 and did not cope very well. I think I would handle it alot better these days. Maybe I would forgive my husband, I actually think I would, but I would never be faithful to him again.
2007-03-11 03:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave! Tit-for-tat seems childish x
2007-03-11 03:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by jellybean55 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
something else: forgive
If the partner cheats then you are not satisfying him/her .. so you cant 100% blame him/her. If its just a fling, look the other way ... real love survives the test of time. If it is over - then no matter what you do it is over .. so your actions are irrelivant. In all cases, if you stay, go, or ignore ... forgive the partner .. they are just human.
Zen
2007-03-11 03:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by zenmaster55555 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated then I would leave him no questions asked. I don't care what the circumstances were. There is no excuse for cheating.
2007-03-11 03:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave, I wouldn't tit for tat, I wouldn't lower myself to his standard.
2007-03-11 03:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
people are so quick to say they would leave but try being married for 20 years with 3 kids and maybe you would answer differently
For me it would depend, i just dont know
2007-03-11 03:20:01 · answer #11 · answered by One Sexy Chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋