Is it the jealousy you feel when your significant other wants to have fun with somebody else?
Is it the desire to keep your significant other with you all the time?
Is it the joy you feel when you and your significant other are having fun together?
I just can’t put my finger on it. Can you help me with this one?
2007-03-11 00:46:26 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, Joe, there is such a thing as real love, which includes nonjudgemental support and respect of another human being no matter what, the enjoyment of being together and having fun (including sex and intimacy), and placing equal weight on each others' happiness. The truth is that very few people experience this in their lifetime. Most people, especially women, are more interested in the image and security of being in a monogomous relationship with someone of the status that they'd like to be with (rich, handsome guy, cop, athlete, etc.) in the lifestyle that they consider ideal (house, minivan/SUV, kids). Anything that's considered a threat to their security and perceived happiness is labeled either "cheating" or "not meeting their needs."
2007-03-11 07:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is when you put the other persons happiness over your own. If you are truely in love you trust each other because you are soulmates. It is something you feel every time they are near. If they feel the same they will put your happiness over their own also. That is what true soulmates do. Trusting someone is key to making a relationship work, but even though jealousy shouldn't be part of the equation I think it is pretty natural to feel a little jealious now and then. You just can't let it take over or you will end up losing the person you love because they think you don't trust them. Good luck.
2007-03-11 00:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a slice, aren't ya, Joe?
Love is:
- the ability to understand and share the feelings of others; empathy
- the desire to do something for someone else, just because it feels good to give of yourself.
- in some bizarre way, love has probably saved a few men's lives; as in when, instead of choking them or snapping their necks, I just shook my head and walked away.
- love is that special look in the eyes of your child.
- "Love doesn't make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile." - Elizabeth Browning
- "Love is the difficult realization that something other than oneself is real." - Iris Murdoch
- "We are most alive when we're in love." - John Updike
- "Love is the big booming beat which covers up the noise of hate." - Margaret Cho, comedienne
- "It's just a ride and we can change it any time we want. It's only a choice. No effort, no work, no job, no savings and money, a choice, right now, between fear and love. The eyes of fear want you to put bigger locks on your door, buy guns, close yourself off. The eyes of love instead see all of us as one." - Bill Hicks 1961-1994
As much as your questions both amaze and disgust me, Joe, I sincerely hope that one day you find someone to love...and that they love you back.
2007-03-11 03:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are different kinds of love. The love I feel for my daughter says to me I will give my life for you if that has to happen. The love I have for my brother says I know you are a crazy person, but I still love you. The love I have for my ex-wife says you are the mother of my daughter. The love I have for myself says take care of yourself so you can take care of your daughter. I agree though love is a confusing emotion sometimes and makes humans do weird stuff. Take care and Good Luck.
2007-03-11 01:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
love is when you dont want to be with no other person in the world. your thinking about them 24-7. you would sacrifice anything for them.and you would get jealous easy if you see him/her with another person.love is also that tingley wierd shy feeling when your around them, but talking and acting to the flow is a sign of a good couple. love is really a mystery, but love always ends with a tear.
2007-03-11 00:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Am sure you have placed your finger on it many times, but it sounds like its been a while for you so let me remind you a little bit, well its a warm feeling and it makes you feel tingling all over and it kinda reminds you when your out fishing, don't you love fishing?? huh kinda like that.
2007-03-11 11:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me LOVE is caring and having feelings for someone, without expecting ANYTHING in return, otherwise known as Unconditional Love.
2007-03-11 03:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient,Love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast,Love is not jelous, does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil, does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth, bears all things, belives all things, hopes alll things, endures all things. Love never fails.
1 cor 13:4 nkjv
2007-03-11 01:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jennie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
love is a feeling you cant describe with someone you know you cant live without...its when you miss him the second he leaves ..and you smile just by thinking of him...when everything that used to go wrong suddenly goes right...when everything you do you want him to be there with you..n everything jus feels RIGHT
2007-03-11 11:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading all your posts this morning, I think it's safe to say that your best bet is to be single, sleep around, and forget about love. You don't seem to have one shred of respect for women, for marriage, or for general common decency. Be a man-ho and be happy with that.
2007-03-11 00:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by beeyootifull_stranger 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋