my best friend is a boy and earlier this month we both moved schools we moved to the same school again but its a girls school and boys school today he wrang me up to invite me to his house and i said yes but he said next sat hes going to his new friends house for tea. I am not jelous but its my birthday next saturday and i was hoping to invite him round i just feel a little sad that i cant celebrate my birthday with him i know i shouldnt be jelous i mean look on the bright side atleast his new friends isnt a girl but how can i stop feeling like this
2007-03-11 00:37:58 · 6 answers · asked by xxheaven 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
i am not 11 thats a typing error me and my best friend are both 15
2007-03-11 00:46:20 · update #1
Did you tell him it's your birthday? Why not ask him AND his other friend over. It sounds as if you're very young and shouldn't be concentrating on just one friend. Keep you options open to lots of new friends and acqaintances.
2007-03-11 00:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey It happens. Talk to him about it and not in a way that will make him feel like you are nagging. Maybe you can all be buds. You feel that way because he is now connecting with a fellow man..lol. Just do not nag or complain..you will lose him for sure.
Maybe recommmend that you all hang one night. If he sees that you are trying then you talk to him, it might go easier.
Good luck. But do understand he needs that same sex friend.
2007-03-17 05:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by Pepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
i have been in your situation before...the best thing for you to do is talk to him and remind him of your birthday!!.....Trust me many times guys forget stuff like that...
As for you being jelous i felt that too ....just talk to him and try to get along with his new friend....
2007-03-14 14:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... can't blame you for getting jealous. it's normal to feel that way. all you have to do is remind him that it's your birthday. he might have forgotten, you know. and... i wouldn't be jealous if i were you. your best friend still wants to hang out with you, but he somehow needs a bit time with other friends. just give let him for a while. you need not to worry.
2007-03-11 00:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by caige 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he can have tea with his friend and later or before stop by for your birthday
2007-03-11 00:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if you can go out for lunch or something
2007-03-11 00:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋