i m a teen why dont my parents understand. i want 2 b free. i love bing. free and also study. i want 2 have loads of frnds. i want 2 enjoy my life. i lve my parents but y r they trying 2 make me hate them.
2007-03-10 23:48:42 · 18 answers · asked by isha d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
LISTEN ALSO PARENTS AND THINK ABOUT THEIR ADVISE IN THE MORNING.
2007-03-11 04:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a teenager myself. So, I can understand how you feel but take your feelings a step further.
Put yourself in their shoes. I mean think about having to raise a growing daughter. You wouldn't want your daughter to make wrong decisions because of her choosing the wrong friends. Also, you wouldn't want her to mess up her future in a big career because she wasn't studying but hanging out with friends all the time.
Your parents want the best for you. That doesn't mean on the other hand that you shouldn't have friends or other freedoms outside of studies. You should just learn that you are growing and your parents have that tension and worry. They love you as much as you love them. The hardest thing they would have to bear is if they learned their daughter who they raised hard and well, did something wrong. Understand your parents and you will never ask a question like this in your life again.
2007-03-11 06:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by riri4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a teen which tells me YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND. You want to be free, but with freedom comes responsibility. You're a teen. Do you pay for your cell phone? Do you buy the groceries? Do you pay the electric bill? Do you put gas in the car? Do you make insurance payments?
I doubt they are trying to make you hate them. From the little information that you've given, it appears to me they are preparing you to be "free" when you are responsible enough.
Everyone want's to "enjoy life", but WAKE UP!!! LIfe is NOT one big party, you don't always enjoy it. Sometimes it just down right sucks. And I guarantee when you're out there on your own, the days you aren't "enjoying life" you will reminisce to those things your parents are making you do now and say "wow, that was so easy, I wish life was like that again"!
2007-03-10 23:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by Pimp Daddy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a teen Ok. But my first and last advise is that in any case pls do not hate yr parents. When you will understand right things, it will be very late. Now think again the things with gr8 patience and calm. You will get many days to enjoy even after age of 30, 40, 60.... too. Slowly prepare steps of good life. Pls understand that this is only a temporary status of your mind. You have ample of time to learn, do not haste.
2007-03-12 00:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by pataudee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are you 13 or 18? Where you are in your teenage years makes a big difference. Try talking to your parents--and be grateful you have them. Do you know HOW many young people LONG to have parents who care for and love them? It sounds like you're young enough that you need some parental guidance just by the things you said. I'm not being nasty-just honest. You are entitled to your feelings, but maybe you need to negotiate with Mom and Dad.
2007-03-10 23:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Duchess20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand! I am a teen and felt the exact same way! Show them that you can handle yourself responsibly and make great grades and then approach them with this problem. Sometimes it feels like they dont want to let you grow up. Try my advice and email me at cherriesrmine2006@yahoo.com to tell me what happens
Good Luck!!!!!
2007-03-11 00:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by ~N3VA W0ULD HAV3 MAD3 IT~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know being a teenager u like freedom but parents on their view of point are also not wrong,they care about u,they love u(and u know tht only loved ones care and so they scold on wrong and praise on good).just don't feel insecure and caged.ask ur parents with full politeness and also obey their part of rules.i am sure they will understand u.but remember don't misuse ur freedom ever.
2007-03-11 00:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me all d parents r like dis im a teen too
bt the thing is they think they cn only make d right choices abt life & think they know all abt us& wats good fr us so they give u this attitude v know better than u & ur jus a kid types of
depressing bt true
2007-03-11 21:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by deepu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah...the teenage years. Every man must go through the growing pains that will eventually separate us from being a child and an adult.
2007-03-11 00:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make good relations with ur parents. make them trust you. win their heart. love them coz ur here coz they wished for a kid. keep in touch with them. ask them what wrong and whats right. keep them what u want to do ... and what are u doing at the moment. be very much clear to them. dont be a doubt for them...
2007-03-11 00:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by syed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u r correct on ur side also this is one of my prob also but i understand now i'll make u too understand.
look they r ur parents we r their one part u will never want that ur stomac or hand get harm or illeffect similarly parents donot want their child to be wrong afterall we r here due to them.
they donot want us to go wrong they have few wishes frm us as they fullfill ur wish its ur duty to fullfill their wish get good marks nd be successfull in life this is what they want frm u. nd offcorce teen age is the age where one believes that he/she is right else go to hell but thats not right understand ur parents then they will understand u too. hope u understand my talk.plz choose me best answer bcoz i have not yet got anyone and i m expecting it from you .plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz choose meeeeee bestttttttttttttt answerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ PZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
2007-03-11 01:38:33 · answer #11 · answered by akanksha m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋