My husband told me that he thinks a girl at work has a nice body. And has taken another girl out for a work lunch. And he has put other womens feelings over mine. But he still says he loves me.
2007-03-10 22:27:07 · 13 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He accidentally said he loved this other girl at work one night when he was getting drunk.
2007-03-10 22:38:14 · update #1
Welcome to jealousy. Every man emotionally cheats . Women too.
2007-03-10 22:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think he's emotionally cheating...yet. But the potential is always there. Why is he taking this other woman out to lunch? Is it business-related and they need to discuss work over lunch? If that's the case, then I don't see any problem. But if it's not business-related, I don't see any reason for the two of them to be alone at any point, for lunch or otherwise. It sounds like he might be getting too "chummy" with the women he works with...commenting on their appearance, spending time with them at lunch, etc. I'd just sit back and keep my eyes and ears open, and see what happens.
In my experience, once you start to question if something is going on and you start to feel like something is wrong....it usually is. :-(
2007-03-11 06:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by heather_chavous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did he tell u he took the other girls for lunch at work ? or u found that out? if u found that our urself then ,, is a really bad news.. but if he tole u that . did u ask him why u took her out for lunch? u better keep on eye on him for a while or talk to him ,, but in this case he is not really emotionally cheating..
or ask him how could u say u love me when u tell me u took someone else for lunch .. and tell him u don;t really like him to take the other girls for lunch
2007-03-11 06:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by juju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey.....
that isn't cheating emotionally or cheating in any way...
those aren't feelings. he just thinks she has a nice body and he won't mind doing her (of course if he WASN't with you)
taking someone out to lunch is fine. i'd rather let my wife go with someone at work who i trust and she trusts than her go alone.
he does love you. i mean you think guys are hot too i bet. he doesn't give you an attitude or think about divorce.
stop overreacting. you watch tv and drool over guys is the same as him just thinking someone is hot.
2007-03-11 06:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by sadlonelylife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is probably on his way! Be aware of his actions but don't react this time. You need to be keen. Saying he loves you is just a word of mouth. Action speaks louder than words.
2007-03-11 06:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Arianne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
enough of his bullcrap.
since he hurts your relationship because he cheats on you with another women
yes, you will have to divorce because there is lame excuse for him to say sorry.
if your husband does not want to divorce, then he must give up and do anything for you.
2007-03-11 06:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by gadgetki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya immediately get some marraige councelling....You will definitely get an appropriate solution from them....just be patience....dont worry you can work that out....
2007-03-11 07:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by banju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what, he is comming home to you, right? That is what matters. he can get his appetite anywhere, as long as he eats at home. Don't give him any reason to want her, wear him out.
2007-03-11 11:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and end something good and set yourself up for financial ruin.
2007-03-11 07:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to marriage counceling and try to work it out.
2007-03-11 06:30:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
only one word - he is cheating u, beware!
2007-03-11 06:50:26 · answer #11 · answered by shyamala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋