2007-03-10 20:21:42 · 29 answers · asked by Trey 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It all depends on your perception. Sometimes things just click. Sometimes that's all the other person is looking for, let's be real, everyone gets h*rny. But from what I've learned, the best relationships start off with passion. [Not only from personal experience but couple psychology is my focus] Ask most woman younger than about 30 and they'll tell you that they're best bf's [lasting/pleasant] started off with an instant hook-up or one that could be considered premature. It comes down to your intentions and how clear you make them. If it's an ONS than let it be mutually understood. Don't get caught up in all the societal crap, it'll just mess up your natural instincts and try to make you feel guilty for your sexuality [one of the negative outcomes of womenlib on men & before you start I'm a feminist], you have to be sexual compatible. Remember, if the sex is good, its about 20% of the relationship, if its bad, it's 80%. Church ;)
2007-03-10 20:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by konstanlne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's wrong, but from my experience as a guy i rarely followed through with a second date if we had sex on the first. if i did follow up with a second date it was just for the sex. not proud of that but just being honest.
2007-03-11 05:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are a girl and you really like the guy then I would say yeah kinda. ONly because you want the guy to respect you. Not let you be just a booty call. But if you guys knew each other for a while, then I'd say it's alright. For vise versa or something else.. I dont really know
2007-03-11 05:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by pretty shy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very wrong... it'll just give the impression to the other party that all your want is sex... if you play on having a long-term relationship, keep the lust holding on till the it's the right time...
2007-03-11 05:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by silvs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its 2007
2007-03-11 05:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say it's wrong. I think it's wrong to deny a moment that ultimately feels right without any unnecessary pressures.
2007-03-11 05:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by this_rare_eclipse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,.,yes it's WRONG.. the bible says that you should have sex after marriage.. not because it is 2007 doesn't mean you shouldn't care for your dignity and reputation..
,..one thing more. it's just your first date, not your honeymoon..
2007-03-11 05:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by emogurl D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - you should get to know a person before you perform such an intimate act. You don't know where they have been for a start and you could get an STD.
2007-03-11 05:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by celianne 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, its not gentlemanly nor does it seems lady-like.. coz sex on the first date juz states that the relationship wil only be sexually-satisfied rather than it shud be emotionally.
2007-03-11 05:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by fizadora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-11 05:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by chekeir 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋