having a hard time of things lately please help if you can?

Question

nothing in my life seem,s to be going well for me..i am a libra born 5th october 1967..my love life appears to be a disaster as i don,t think he is being honest with me..he is a cancer born 29th june 1970..i have a gut instinct that i am just a fling to him and nothing else..i also believe he is seeing or contacting other women..
is there anyone out there that can either put my mind to rest on the compatability of us two..or wheter this relationship is just doomed..
need to figure out what to do as am hurting inside a lot
thankyou

Answer 1

Libra and Cancer

When Cancer and Libra come together they each supply what the other is lacking. Both Signs are looking for security in partnership, and they share an appreciation for beauty and luxury, particularly in their domestic environment. The two can work together harmoniously if both are trying to achieve the same goals. The relationship may start slowly, and at first the pair may seem to have little in common, but the more they get to know each other, the better each person will recognize and respect positive qualities in the other.

Cancer and Libra both appreciate emotional and intellectual resources, and they often enjoy a teary opera or a sentimental antique. Emotion and pleasure are important to both Signs, and they complement each other in many ways. Cancer appreciates Libra's charm and diplomacy, and Libra can tame the wild shrew of unbridled emotional pouting which rears its ugly head if Cancer doesn't get their way. Libra appreciates the Cancerian love of nurturing a comfortable home and the security that comes with it. Additionally, Libra can help Cancer see the different sides of a situation, rather than making a decision without knowing all the facts. Conversely, Cancer can help Libra cure their notorious indecision.

Cancer is ruled by The Moon and Libra by the Planet Venus. These partners share a love of home, hearth, family and romance. Libra, especially, is about balance, and both partners share nurturing personalities and a desire for harmony. Together they are able to bring warmth and stability to other people unlike any other couple. Librans can be snobbish and Cancer may get their feathers ruffled easily. Cancer is based on emotion, and Libra based on intellect.

Cancer is a Water Sign and Libra is an Air Sign. Libra moves through life with pure mental exploration, while Cancer is more kinesthetic. Cancer is happiest when their emotional needs are met while Libra simply focus on what interests them from an intellectual standpoint. At times these partners may find it difficult to understand each other. Conflicts can arise in this relationship if Cancer seems too crabby or Libra seems too provocative. Both partners need to learn that they view the world in different ways.

Cancer and Libra are both Cardinal Signs. In this relationship, both partners will constantly struggle to be at the steering wheel. Libra's indecision may irritate Cancer. But Libra is skilled at seeing all sides of a problem, so is often able to accept Cancer's decision as long as Cancer avoids getting Crabby. Both are initiators which can, at times, be a struggle when their ideas and approach differ.

The best aspect of the Cancer-Libra relationship is their mutual appreciation of stability and domestic balance. Aesthetics are important and they share a love of the comforts in life. Their similar tastes and loves makes theirs a relationship of great dedication and harmony.

Answer 2

I can actually "feel" your pain. It sounds like you are really down. Maybe it is time to say goodbye. If you feel that he is seeing others, then he probably is. How about you turn the tables hon. Make him a fling and nothing else! Leave him, and think of him as that fling you had. I know it's hard to do this, but believe me, if the relationship is as hurtful as it sounds, then you are better off. Think of your needs, wants, dreams and desires. Do you really want this? Is it worth it?

Answer 3

If you are not happy and don't feel you can trust him, this relationship will only make you feel worse. I would suggest asking him how he sees your relationship going forward. It's better to ask and know the truth so you can make a decision and move on, rather than just be worrying about it and feeling so unhappy.

Personally I think if you can't trust someone, then having a relationship with them is going to be a bit of a nightmare whichever way you look at it.

Take care

Answer 4

Horoscope has nothing to do with our destiny especially love. It is us who puts the fire in a relationship. Try to recall if you had been a good woman to him, if you did every effort to call the attention of your man. Sometimes, it takes two to tango. But sometimes, people are not meant to be...hard to accept..but you have to. Stop thinking that you are just a fling or whatever...he sees another girl..i am nothing with him..oh c'mon..It is not only you who experiencing that kind of situation. Everyone of us experiences that..even celebrities or those who are in line of royal family! To be honest, I am in that situation right now but I am trying to move on..there's still life to look for. But think positive don't put yourself too much with that kind of person. Prove to everyone, especially to him, that you are someone who could still be beautiful and wild even without him.

Answer 5

Sorry you're having a bad time - it does sound as if this relationship is on the road to nowhere. If he is hurting you, it's probably time to move on - hard, I know, but it should be better than what you're going through at the moment. I've been there, too. Good luck.

Answer 6

Youre having doubts and fears,time to end it all and have some fun.Life is to short to have worries like this,get out there girl and let your hair down.

Answer 7

Sounds to me like you already answered your own question.

Answer 8

Get a grip on yourself and stop moaning and whinging,there is only yourself who can sort out your problems!