I love my girlfriend so much. Both of us are 15 and we already know we are going to be together forever. I already asked her to marry me and as soon as i get a ring she will say yes (she already said yes, but got tired of waiting for a ring, so she told me to get a ring and ask her again and she will be okay with even a twenty dollar ring). we acutally met here on yahoo answers. The really wierd part is that about ten years ago i went to visit my cousin after her mom got arrested and i went to play at the park there and there was this litte girl hiding in the tire, i climb on the tire and hang down to ask her to come out, ten years later i found out that was actually the same girl i'm dating right now, lifes wierd huh? We do have kind of a not so long distance relationship, she only live about and hour or two away, but i miss her sooo much. Is there anything i can do to miss her less and what do you think about me and her, wierd how we got together right?
2007-03-10 20:05:13 · 9 answers · asked by Cody 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If we could get married right now we would. Also about the only thing stopping us from having a kid is that our parents would kill us. If we could we would start our lives with each other right now. I love her so much.
2007-03-10 20:09:32 · update #1
We don't care about money or anything else. We just want to be together, just me and her, forever. All we want to do is love each other as much as we can. I also know its not puppy love, i thought i was in love before, but my love for her is so much stronger i know the previous was just puppy love and this is the real thing.
2007-03-10 20:13:52 · update #2
I'm not going to launch into a tyrade stating "You're 15, too young, don't get married, you're too young to be smart about relationships!" because I know other people will jump on that bandwagon. I give you the same advice that would give ANYONE, any age, getting into a relationship. Time and friendship.
I met my boyfriend when I was about your age. We didn't start dating right away, but we became best friends. We spent a few years like that, (we didn't go to the same school and we lived about a couple hours away) but we always stayed in touch and just enjoyed each other. Friendship is the foundation of anything. It builds trust, closeness; you learn more about each other and more about the world through each other.
As for time, the initial few months are a huge high. It's great, I know! But, the high does wane down. What will really prove your love true is if that high is replaced with loving and deep affection. Whoever said that love is fuzzy bunnies and happiness all the time lied; Being loved is always great. It always feels amazing. But sometimes, loving someone is hard and it doesn't feel good at all. The basis of long lasting, forever type of marriage is one that can sacrifice that amazing feeling. Money will be an issue (isn't it always?) but it doesn't have to be a problem. The question is if she had her heart set on something, and you wanted something for yourself, what would you honestly spend the money on if she never found out where it came from or what you gave up?
I'm definitely not knocking a 15 year old's relationship/marriage. Love doesn't have an age. It does however, need time and a good foundation. Just make sure to do your girl justice and give her that kind of time and devotion that a Forever relationship requires.
As for missing her less, homemade gifts are the best. Get an unlimited long distance phone plan cause you'll need it, and write her lots of letters. They're always great.
2007-03-11 17:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by Chicken Little 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats cool if you guys are in love with each other now. But the marriage thing for your age is stupid. You guys are still young. And you don't know what will happen in the future. You two may not last long even if you think you're really in love with your girl now. Your relationship with her may last long but it won't be forever, trust me. Marriage is not about two people being in love, its about being able to support each other for life and being responsible of the marriage life. Anyway slow down dude, you still have plenty of time before you marry. I would say you should stay in a relationship for at least a year in order to judge wheter this girl is the right one for you.
2007-03-11 05:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get married at your age?. There is no real difference as long as you have her that is all that matters as of right now. Just go out with her for the years that pass then when you are done school and able to support her and live happily in life then I would consider the marriage thing. and live happy ever after :)
You are a lucky guy and loved the story man
best of luck to ya
2007-03-11 05:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Bullz_ eye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an extremely sensitive person and very much in touch with your feelings... That isn't necessarily a great thing, I know because I was like that at an early age as well and believe me life isn't exactly easy when you wear your heart on your sleeve like that.
The best advice anyone could ever give to someone like you is to be EXTREMELY careful with everything you do, every decision you make, every action you take. Every little thing in life has a dramatic effect on someone like you (and me), so even though it's hard you have to really try not to get caught up in your feelings and emotions too much. You have to use your head and really think about things. And try to be a little less open and trusting of others...
Good luck.
2007-03-11 06:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by WhooHoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15? ready for marriage? not likely. just puppy love. if you can only afford a $20 ring, how are you going to afford to get married and stay married? you don't need an expensive ring, or a lot of money, but you do need to finish school, go to college, and live a little.
2007-03-11 05:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, that's so sweet. Just wait a few more years if you can. Don't rush things, be patient. You're still too young to be thinking about marriage or even having kids. Who knows what will happen between you and her in a few years.
2007-03-11 05:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the word is not weird but magic
well u can always call her and chat or write a letter for her but dont send it to her keep it, like, u can grab any notebook and write anything u want to tell her everytime u miss her then ater that do ur thing then when u miss her again grab the notebook and write something just like that
2007-03-11 05:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a great story. how you met again...lucky you!
Sorry i dont know anything you can do to make you miss her less!
Please wait till you have experienced more of life before you have a baby..you want the best for your future family:)
2007-03-11 05:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by starla20026 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may WANT a child but either of you are capable of taking care of a child- it isn't something to do at 15-be in love all you want but wear a condom.
2007-03-11 06:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by sss_1122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋