ok some ppl say that sex hurts the first time due to the hymen breaking but lets say ur hymen isnt there from doing other activities would it still hurt the first time u had sex
plz answer back
all would be apprieted
2007-03-10 19:19:28 · 19 answers · asked by Rebecca golder 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'm gonna say this cuz no one else has yet, no matter what you do, use a condom. you can get pregnant the first time and you can catch STD's the first time. and that will worry you more than a little pain. Have fun and stay safe.
2007-03-10 20:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by keeper_of_souls13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had my hymen removed at birth because the doctor discovered that it was completely covering my vaginal opening, so when I first had sex, I didn't have a hymen to break. However, the sex was still uncomfortable. When you're young, your vagina is quite small/tight, and it's not accustomed to being stretched open. That changes after having frequent sex, ageing, or having children (via a vaginal birth, not a C-section). Sex can be painful/uncomfortable for many reasons. It can depend on the size of your partner's penis, for example, or even how he inserts it into you. If he's gentle, it will be more comfortable for you, but if he's wild and thrusts hard and deep, you may become tender inside quickly. Different sexual positions can be more or less comfortable as well because the penis will enter your vagina at slightly different angles and press into you at different points, causing varying sensations. Sex will be very uncomfortable for you if you're not lubricated enough, either naturally from your own vaginal fluids, or artificially from a water-based lubricant. It can also be painful if you're suffering from a pelvic "situation," such as Pelvic Inflammatory Disease, menstrual cramps, a bladder infection, etc. I hope this helps.
2007-03-10 20:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by Gretchen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person, the width of him, the width of her, I know some people that didn't feel pain at all. I know people that have had a broken hymen and it still hurt during first time sex, the good news, it only tends to hurt that first time. Use lube, relax and it'll be all good. If u are nervous you'll tense up and make it worse. Have a trustworthy partner and be at ease during. Lubrication can alleviate unnecessary friction.
2007-03-16 12:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't have to be. Even with an hymen, it does not necessarily hurts.
First time for some women usually hurts because they are not well lubricated. This can happen because she is nervous, not very relaxed. Or it could be because of lack of experience from both parts.
If you take things calm, wait until you are 100% sure that is what you want, take time for foreplay (and pick someone who would take the time), it shouldn't hurt.
2007-03-10 19:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Edith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the hymen is already broken, it won't hurt as much. it still might be a little uncomfortable, mostly because you are mostly likely going to also be nervous your first time. but even if there is some pain, it's really not bad at all and usually stops after a couple of minutes.
2007-03-17 06:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cindy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are relaxed & lubricated either naturally (from being turned on) or with lubrication, it may be uncomfortable at first but should not be painful unless the guy is just too big. Go slow so your muscles can adjust to his size.
Also the hymen could actually still be there, as it is elastic somewhat and stretches.
2007-03-18 19:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still May hurt / may get pain for the Very first time. It is normal to get pain few first times as dick was first to get in through it. Ok Specially if the big/huge one to penitrate. Just this is the matter. Why worrying much. You will get real PAIN if you worry now. Understand. Dont think it is very Important. It is very easy and normal. you will certainly enjoy it as billions of other woman do.
2007-03-10 20:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who know u are havin sex for the 1st time so they would be easy on u and relax dont go in thinkin its goin too hurt cuz if u do then u will be thinkin about it sooo much u wont enjoy ur 1st time so go in and relax and and have fun ur cherry being pop! have protection plz safe sex all the way later and u will enjoy it later dont turn into a freak
2007-03-10 19:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by vetta b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it willhurt u...i broke my hymen few months back but didnt had sex for two months as my husband was out of country and when i had sex after 2 months it was really painful
2007-03-16 09:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by sdlclife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will still be unpleasant! not only is the penis ripping through tissue, it is also being forced inside! but dont worry, the pain shouldnt last long!
use LOTS of lubercation! trust me its a life saver!
LOTS of foreplay!
2007-03-18 20:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by Time is of the Essence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋