My husband and I have been together since I was15 and he was 16.We got married when I was 16, that was 6 years ago.We lost our virginitys to each other. We have always comunicated well and our relationship has been solid for 7 years.I have never known love like he gives.He is truley amazing I know that he still loves me but in the past 2 months he has started pulling away it seems like he is loosing interist in me.Do you think he is out growing me? what can I do?
2007-03-10 18:55:06 · 6 answers · asked by goodgirl5567 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have started young in finding your life partner.
Part of growing up is adapting to changes that take place in your relationship. You can't expect the fire that you started with to remain with the same force.
You could gently talk to your husband and express your worries without being insistent of insecure and I am sure he will put your mind at ease.
Good Luck!
2007-03-10 19:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Pabs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound really immature for your age. I wonder if it has to do with the fact that you stunted your growth by marrying so young. Perhaps he's looking for an adult, but seems to be married to the same little girl. You describe him as if you're a teenage girl in a teenage relationship, but instead of saying boyfriend you say husband. What should you do? Talk to him. If you communicate as well as you say you do, this shouldn't be an issue. You might want to consider counselling, if you can't talk it through when you ask him what's up. And try and get out there and experience life or move in with the Amish, but even they might think you're immature.
2007-03-10 19:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My spouse and I had this same problem. She eventually looked for the greener side of the fence. After a lot of tears we made up and started over but, it was never the same again.
I have forgiven but, it's hard to forget. It's always there in the background. I don't know what you can do to stop something like this.
Talk to him and reassure him you love him, ask him point blank what the problems are. Make him feel comfortable. I don't know what else to tell you except that you have to try before something happens. I found out this happens lot in early marriages. Married to young, to fast.
2007-03-10 19:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, that's hard to say...I think what you need to do is-- make yourself more mysterious to him. Dint show any kind of concern. And definitely dint let him know your feeling week about your relationship. Sometimes men feel stronger when they know your week.Again, start a new "Strong Determined Side", and don't be predictable. Do things ,that would make you mysterious. Especially if there something you like to do, that hes not as fond of. Start doing it without him. If he cares,,, he'll show it then..
2007-03-10 19:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People out grow each other hun. Happens all the time!
2007-03-10 19:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time for you and your brother to stop having this type of relationship.
2007-03-10 18:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by ill take it straight with no ice 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋