i have been married for one year now, but i have been with my man for 6 years, i am so attracted to women i dont know what to do.i like lesbian porn, and i have kissed a woman before. i want to go all the way. some how i think if i do the real deal, it will be all out of my head, and i can move on, but what if i try it and i like it? how can i fight this urge of being intimate with a woman? the urge is so strong. i have been curious for about 11/2 years and for the past year the desire to do this has grown so much stronger than before. i love my husband so much. i have a very high sex drive to begin with, all i do is think about it all the time, i even picture myself being physical with some of my straight friends, help, what would you do?
2007-03-10 18:53:50 · 7 answers · asked by sabrinajones30 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
alot of guys have fantasies about two women engaging in sex acts. I would bring it up casually to your hubby and see how he reacts. If it is just a sexual thing than let him know and he might be open to it.
if it is deeper then jsut sex than you need to take steps towards being more open with yourself. Think of the years you are wasting by rejecting this part of yourself.
2007-03-10 23:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hit your head on the wall until it hurts and then go find something else to keep yourself busy.
It sounds like you don't have any real problems that you have time to watch porn of any kind.
Just stop yourself from dwelling on these thoughts. Go out for a walk. You will end up ruining your life if you continue thinking about these things.
If you are Catholic go to confession and confess that you have been watching porn and dwelling of these thoughts. You need God's Grace and Strength to fix your life before you destroy the only person who will ever be you.
Stay involved in wholesome activities and pray for strength.
God Bless You,
2007-03-10 19:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by CHS 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't resist the urge. Just do it!
2007-03-10 23:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring it up to him. He may encourage it.
2007-03-10 20:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by williamirias2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it, your husband will probably encourage it.
2007-03-10 19:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by trymy69style 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get some
2007-03-10 19:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
become bi sexual lol
2007-03-11 00:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋