I want to know is it right to do the sex with the girl who will be your wife in the future before get married?

Answer 1

Depends.. if you are very very religious or the girl is too. then just wait it out. but if ur not too into religions and stuff like that.. then go for it. wouldnt hurt.

Answer 2

of course not.

Q: I had sex before I got married. My wife, however, chose to remain a virgin. When I was single, I never thought having sex is a big deal, but my wife is still bothered by the fact that I had premarital sex. Is there something wrong with her? And what is the point of waiting to have sex until marriage anyway?


A: Your question raises several issues that I think I need to deal with. First of all, premarital sex, according to the Bible, is called fornication, and the apostle Paul says that this is a sin against your own body. If you’re a Christian, for example, you’re taking the body of Jesus and joining it to, Paul said, a harlot. You’re joining it in an immoral act. We have about 60 or 70-million cases of sexually-transmitted diseases for starters, the worst of which is AIDS, but we’ve got a whole lot of others that can really permanently cripple you. Not to mention the fact you might wind up siring a child, that you can ruin his life, her life or your life. So you’re talking about serious business. So, it is a big deal. But, nevertheless, now you’ve come to marriage, and you’ve said to your wife, “You are my only love. From now on, I’m going to be faithful to you.” Now, that’s the commitment. Your wife needs to realize that you have made a commitment. Whatever philandering you may have done as a youngster, the important thing is that you will be faithful to her for the rest of your lives. But what you did before marriage is not any important thing. To her, it’s very precious. Her virginity was very precious, and we commend her. You should love her for that. You need to honor her for that and not say, “Well, it’s no big deal.” It is a very big deal for somebody like that. Rather say, “Look, I’m giving myself to you, and you are the only one from now on. And please understand that I’m going to be faithful to you as long as we live.” And that should settle it. What’s in the past, you’ve just got to put it under the blood of Jesus and let it go.

Answer 3

In marriage, purity should be the main goal. Although the idea of having sex is tempting, it should not be experimented with before the actual vows are spoken. Biblically speaking, a couple should remain pure and refrain from consummating the relationship until they are legally married, or become "as one". The blessings of God will certainly be with you as you choose to do His will. When in doubt, abstinence is always best!

Answer 4

its really a matter of what the morals of your family are, its really not supposed to be right at all to ever have sex before you get married. soooooooo if you follow those moral rules then you know its not a good thing.

Answer 5

Well I am a religious person and I believe that waiting until the very night makes it that much more special.

Answer 6

The Bible says it is wrong. If you wait until you are married you will be less likely to get a divorce i believe!!
God Bless~~

Answer 7

Do you test drive a car before you buy it

I reccomend that you do as you may realise you were not made for each other, which will result in a failed marriage

Answer 8

Yes. Right. It is more right if you know you are going to marry her.

Answer 9

I would recommend that... But how will you know your future wife?

Answer 10

i am a muslim and in my religion it is not allowed it is forbidden to have sex before marriage it is a big sin