Well i was dating this guy for about a month, just casually did not want anything serious, but then the condom broke. I got pregnant. Then i found out at about 2-3 months and I told him and he disapeared. I didnt know alot about him and now that im 39 weeks and due next frieday. How would be the best way to track him down. I dont have the money for a private investigator. Any ideas how I can find him, or get his number and address. Ive also tried looking up his number and stuff online and he is all unlisted....(No rude comments) Any suggestions..really buggin me!!
2007-03-10 17:43:44 · 11 answers · asked by jade 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm guessing you never went by his apartment or home because you said you were trying to get his address...this is a tough one. I would go to your local DCS office (department of children's services) and see if they can assist you. If I'm not mistaken, they help track down the missing parent when you apply for child support.
Also did you meet any of his friends? If so try their numbers or their houses. Did you know where he worked? Try his job. Try spots where you guys hung out at. If you dated a month, I'm sure you had to have some type of number or something to contact him. Do you have any friends that are cops? Maybe you could tell them what kind of car he drives...year make model and color and tell them his name and maybe they can pull up his driving record or his tag number or something that will allow them to get his address.
Good luck!!!
2007-03-10 20:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by So_many_questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would contact your local Department of Family Services, and they can track him down for you. If you don't want to get that severe, you could ask people who knew him, and assure them, whether it's the truth or not, that you only want to let him know his child is here. Also...there is a website that might be able to help you if you know a little bit about him...It gives addresses and phone numbers and such.
www.zabasearch.com
2007-03-10 17:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Ang 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your going to get child support from him I think the Gov. can look for you! Do you know where he worked or anything like that? Were there any clues to where he might work? someones job is a really easy way to find them! Even if he left town he might have transferred somewhere else? I hope you find him! Good luck & Congrats on the baby!
2007-03-10 17:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs McNallen<3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't stress yourself about it you have enough to worrie about. This guy doesn't care or he whould be looking for you.It sounds like it was his intention to not be found. It really stinks that he helped make the baby but left the hard stuff for you. Chances are you will never see him agin. If you get AFDC on your baby after he/she is born the government will go after him.
But hey most women whouldn't even have the baby so you have my respect! You are taking responsibility for your actions and that all that matters.
2007-03-10 18:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by goodgirl5567 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't casual, but anyways
The only thing you can really do is try to go through his family members. Find someone in his family and he can be tracked from there by the courts.
2007-03-10 17:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know his name and other information about him, your state government should be willing to track him down for purposes of child support. Addresses, employers, etc., would all help.
Best of luck.
2007-03-10 17:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sad that some people don't take responsibility for their actions. Just shows you how much he cared huh? Good luck with the baby.
2007-03-10 17:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by jammer 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u know any of his friends or family members ask them, go to places where he use to go.
2007-03-10 17:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for you!!...what a loser,he is!!...try to locate his family members, and talk to them....Good luck,sweetie!!
2007-03-10 18:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmmm...damn, you said no rude comments!
ask his friends (if you know any). otherwise, you might never find him. good luck.
2007-03-10 17:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋