1 and 1/2 months pregnant, then seperated from my husband and had a sexual relationship with another man. the baby has come out looking like the other man.... is this possible???
2007-03-10 17:30:03 · 21 answers · asked by lovinbbb 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
The baby would look exactly the same as it does now even if you hadn't had the affair.
2007-03-10 17:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by greymatter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough decision but to let you know I heard and know of people that still stay married after an affair. It is possible. It just depends on you. You need to seek marriage and individual counseling for the both of you. Because the depression will be the one that will hurt the relationship and the kids. And just because you were not sure if you want kids or not and got distant it should of never resorted to cheating counseling should of been in plan then. Do the two of you even talk to each other and try to work problems out together?
2016-03-28 23:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you were already a month and a half?
Okay, well since you are sure, I'd say either one of two things happened:
1) The man you had an affair with look similar to either someone on you or your husband side of the family. or like your husband. or
2) It's one of those things that happened you know how people say The person you was thinking about or hated during your pregnancy is who your baby will come out looking like- so maybe you were thinking about him a lot!
Either go get a DNA test done if not really sure it's the husband, or don't worry about it the kid will look different as he/she gets older anyway.
Hope this helped!
2007-03-10 17:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by lele5240 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not posible sweetie, and i know that you know that. It is just a mind game. I think that u are feeling very guilty and that is why you tend to see the other man in your baby. Does your husband know that you had an affair? Maybe you should get that off of your chest and you will start to feel a bit better.Plus, i don't recommend staring out the conversation with "so, i'm not sure if this baby is yours..." You should explain everything completely, how you feel and yadda yadda. Hope this helps sweetie! Good luck!
2007-03-10 18:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by jashaunte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...The baby you were already pregnant with when you had sex with another man one and half months later was ALREADY CONCEIVED and had began development. Once an egg is fertilized by a man's sperm and has begun growing (especially over a month later) NO other sperm can penetrate that egg...So, the developing baby could NOT have any chance of having the later relationship's genetic traits. Baby looking like him is pure coincidence.
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2007-03-10 17:36:33 · answer #5 · answered by onelight 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not if you were already pregnant when you had sex with this other man. Your mind is probably just playing tricks on you. If you're worried that the affair would interfere with the pregnancy you could be seeing that in your baby.
2007-03-11 01:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Wiccan~Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the genetics of the baby are determined at the time of conception. A baby cannot change paternity partway through a pregnancy. This is because of your guilty conscience.
2007-03-10 17:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by lilly j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were already pregnant befor you slept with the other man then no its not possible at all. If you were off with your dates thats a different story.
2007-03-10 17:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. you can get pregnant anytime that month
oh wait 1 1/2 months.. no it is not possilbe. I though t you said 1/2 a month
2007-03-10 17:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way, that child can have your Mistress DNA per say. If that was the case we women would be able to get pregnant while already being pregnant!
2007-03-10 17:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by mom of 2 angels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋