my sister was at penn state and my mother's gf forced my mother to im my sister and tell her to return to ny

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ok, so here's the deal. My mother met a crazy woman named Crystal from Troy, NY online, and this past may my mother acted like she was mentally ill and told my father to leave our house in maryland and stay with his mother. The night after my father left my mother unplugged and hid the phone, then went out and got Crystal, who had taken a bus to MD and brought her to our house in MD, then the next day they rented a moving truck and made us pack everything we could all in 1 day and move to Troy, NY. I could not call anyone because my mother refused to let me use the phone and whenever I said anything Crystal would just yell and threaten me. I am now back in Maryland because I was in college so my mother drove me back in August. While they were down here Crystal cursed my mother's parents out and threatened to kill me while my mother said NOTHING and did nothing but look sad. In January my mother and Crystal also drove my sister to Penn state, but in Feb. my sister realized she could not

afford to stay at Penn State, so she had to leave. She did not have a phone, so she went to a computer lab and instant messaged my mother and my mother kept trying to tell my sister that maybe she could stay at Penn State and find a way to pay because she was expecting a loan. But Crystal kept yelling at my mother, telling my mother to type to my sister that there was no way she could afford to stay at penn State and to just take a bus back to Troy, NY. If anything my sister wanted to take a bus back here to MD and stay with my mother's parents, but Crystal would not have it any other way. It was my sister was going to return to Troy, NY, no questions asked. And whenever my mother tried to type anything else to my sister Crystal would scream at my mother. My sister was seduced into returning to Troy, NY when she did not want to, and Crystal is controlling my mother and my mother is afraid to say anything. And that is completely illegal, whether or not my mother chooses to do anything.

I really believe my mother is afraid to leave Crystal in Troy, NY and return here to Maryland because her whole family was against her moving in the first place and now she is afraid her parents will be mad if she comes back here, and if my mother tells Crystal she wants out Crystal will get mad and my mother will have to move all of her stuff out of the apartment, and she will have no one except my bother who is 22 and has autism and my sister who is 19 & neither of whom can drive to help her get out. And how could she even do anything like get a moving truck to get out with Crystal there yelling at her? I need help. Is there anyone who can talk to my mother and make her realize that she does not really want to be living with Crystal but is just afraid to leave? keep in mind that my mother refuses to talk to anyone who will force her to confront her problems, so suggesting she see someone is out of the question. There has to be someone who can actually go to the apartment /talk to her

Answer 1

Can't your Dad help? If you are old enough, you should be able to live with the parent you want to. If you are all over 18, your Mother can't tell you what to do, anyway. You need to get away from her. Your grandparents could also file for custody, if any of you are underage. Turn to the other adults in your life, they should be more than able to help you. As for your Mother, I was taught "you made your bed, now you'll have to lay in it." She is a big girl, and she has made her choices, now SHE has to live with them. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 2

call the police.
what crysatl is doing is forcing all of you to do things under duress.

kick her out (get permission from mother)

give her 2 days to leave, then call police. if she dosnt leave, grab a knife and force her out (its legal, ive done research on stuff like that). or just move back. since crystal has threatended you with death, no lawyer could make you live with her.


good luck and god bless.

Answer 3

LOL. relies upon what your dad is like. Who'd you would be able to desire to form them for??? that's merely creepy. And why might your sisters even opt for to positioned on them back? /: that's ill. i've got faith undesirable for you. do no longer tell human beings! o:

Answer 4

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