i don't know if these were part of my married brother in laws files since he recently downloaded some files on my pc or if they belong to my husband. i don't have any clue who these belong to but i can say my sex life with husband has changed he is extremely fast in bed now like 4-10 mins maybe less never was that way before how can i find out the truth and if they files are belonging to my brother in law should i tell his wife ? i am so discusted my husband and i were already having problems but finding this was unbelievable.
2007-03-10 17:18:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let me tell you what to do. There is a software called ESP and it is free. It is a keylogger, kind of like your own personal spy. Install it and if it is him he will likely do it again and then you will have actual printable proof. I pray that you dont find anything I can tell you from experiance that it is extreemly painful. If you are not ready to know the truth, then dont do it. But if you cant live without knowing install the software. Good luck and I hope that he isnt doing anything stupid. The link to the software I posted in the source window.
2007-03-10 18:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by NightRose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well someone is probably fooling around. However, you being sneaky like a detective is not the way to go. Sometimes it does help to ask nicely.
How do I know? I am a man and when I was younger, over 97% of the guys I knew were fooling around with escorts because they are not like girlfriends(who get jealous and call your house while the wife is there). It is very hard for a guy to get caught cheating when he is messing with escorts. Movie stars always do it. Guys usually turn to escorts after being caught cheating with the "girl next door".
If these sites are on the pc, then that person is either very stupid or just looking around.
Always give the person the benefit of the doubt as the grass is not greener on the other side. Work out your issues to the best you can in an honest way first.
Good luck.
2007-03-11 01:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I bet 10-1 it was your B-I-L's. He probably wanted to use his Brother's computer so not to be caught at home. I imagine he has a CPU at home as most everyone has one right?
If it was, stay out of it. It was by accident you found them.
However; if your Husband did it, which would be really stupid and reckless of him, don't get worked up into the unknown. Just be vigilant of anything out of the ordinary besides bedroom changes. I mean things that are real suspicious.
No used putting yourself into a tizzy and stress yourself out. If that doesn't satisfy you, come STRAIGHT OUT and ask your Husband. Communication is the most important tool too many couples do not utilize.
2007-03-11 03:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by The Sylvan Wizard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go into the history and see if your history files have date tags and time, then see if those times and days were when your brother was on your pc...... or your husband.
also ask your hubby straight out, tell him what you found on your pc, don't let him sweet talk you away from the issue. internet and irl infidelity is a serious issue and you need to find out the truth.
2007-03-11 01:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your husband where they came from...
Be careful about telling Brother in Law's wife...
2007-03-11 01:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The change in his sex style cud be due to many other reasons. The very fact that he still does it, he cares for u and get the pleasure out of it.
2007-03-11 01:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand ur pain i suggest you make sure folder where cookies goes to is read only and archive right click go to properties and do this its probally under document and settings under c drive then install what they call a key logger on your computer..do a search for this and try one out..it will give you passwords and screen shots of what he does..don't say a word to him ..watch and see what happens time will tell..if could just be ur brother..my brother went to alot of porn sites on my dads computer
2007-03-11 01:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by ♥queen b♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll eventually PUKE!!!
He's YUKKY!!!
Read this:
http://journals.aol.com/jayorskins/JWJandLLJ/
2007-03-11 01:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Skinz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress like a hooker and treat him like one and he will be happy. maybe your a little too prudish or not giving it up. Make him have a reason to be with you, not someone else.
2007-03-11 03:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋