I work full-time, go to school part-time.Have my own apartment, I have my own car. I am attractive, smart and funny.Everything a gay women would want, right?? I have been to the clubs,bars and even myspace and other websites, but I seem to be meeting the same kind of women. Either they come with emotion baggage or in the "no commitment" fan club. I am looking for a long-tern relationship because I never had one,but I don't want to be commited to just ANYONE, I want to fall in love. but the girls around here are crazy!!Can somebody offer me some good advise on how to CURE MY LONELYNESS perferable something I don't already know!!
2007-03-10 17:17:20 · 2 answers · asked by honey11chick 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
how old are you and where do you live? haha jk.
well in my experiences i have found that when i was looking for someone they were never there, and i could never find them. but i think that you should give it time(yes i know time sucks) and eventually she will come to you. and notice all the great things about you that you just listed. and yes girls can be crazy. and alot of them these days dont want commitment or come with baggage( like you just said). and that is what you obv. dont want. but girls may be scared of what you have on your plate, because you seem very stable. but i really do think that you should let her come to you. and how is she to some to you? well i dont know that. that is for you to figure out. and yes lonelyness does suck but dont let it take over you. you seem to have a good head on your shoulders. all i got for you is that its all about time. so good luck my dear.
2007-03-10 18:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To colie's wonderful answer I would just add- consider yourself lucky. You know what you are looking for.
So many people just want love, in any condition. They usually settle for someone who isn't right for them, and get churned into the sad cases with "Emotional Baggage" that you are so keen to avoid.
Live your life to the full. Have something to talk about when you finally meet Ms. Right. Travel when you get the chance.
The journey can be more important than the destination. By the end of the journey, may you have found love, peace, and happiness.
2007-03-11 21:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋