there's some dudes that live across the street from me and whenever I leave my house and I see them , I feel uncomfortable. Sometimes when they see me they laugh but I'm not sure if they're laughing at me but I assume they are. How can I feel more comfortable when I'm around them and how can I ignore whatever they say or do so I can get on with my life.
2007-03-10 17:05:09 · 12 answers · asked by Stayneless Steel 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
u dont. hahahahah
2007-03-10 17:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
The best thing to do in my opinion is just ignore the laughing , because if you don't feed into their crap they will get board & move onto someone else . This is if you aren't just too self concious and are only imaging that they are laughing at you .
Bullys and torments are very insecure themselves , why else would they have to pick at others in order to make themselves look better . Truth is it only makes them look foolish . Your best bet is to try looking too busy to notice them.
2007-03-11 01:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill them with kindness , when they start laughing , smile real big at them and wave and Say " Good morning " thay will pis$ them off more than anything..If you are a anti social freak like me you can wear sun glasses , so you dont have to make eye contact , and come out of your hous with head phones on and act like you are so preoccupied you dont even notice them
2007-03-11 01:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Diane 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't give a crap what others think of me. There are going to be plenty of people laughing at you whether they're jealous or they have their on insecurities and try to put other ppl down. Maybe they're jealous because you have a better house than them, i don't know.
2007-03-11 01:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well avoid what they do,say or think about u.i m a girl & m also having the same problem with my neighbour.well just avoid them
or laugh with them on ur self if u do this they will stop laughing at u after som days................ have a good laughing day.
2007-03-11 01:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by blue_fly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally ignore them. Thats what gets to people like that. They want to see how much they are bothering you. If you don't let them see it eventually they will move on to something else. I would bet though five years from now, look where they are, and then look at yourself. See who is laughing then.
2007-03-11 01:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
you have to prove to them that youre worth their respect. but you should be careful, cause guys like that can be dangerous. my suggestion is to laugh when you see them the next time, and do some overly suggestive douchebag thing like the double gun shot then shake your head and laugh again then walk away. they wont know what happened. if you get hurt doing this i apologize whole heartedly.
2007-03-11 01:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by Pierce 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of the toughest things in life to do. The answer lies in self confidence and self assuredness. If you've got these attributes working for you, then you've got no problem. Good luck!!!
2007-03-11 01:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
can u move somwhere else? if not then try to talkin to them if they dont like so scary. Or if u are too afraid to talk to them i think u should most likely move because then ull have to deal with the laughing at.
2007-03-11 01:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have self-confidence. Walk with poise. Act like you know what your doing even if you might not. Or.......get better than them at something whether it be playing guitar or a sport, than just totally own them at it one day and be like what now sucka??
2007-03-11 01:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by rchdee17 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They do not matter. Know this and it will go away.
2007-03-11 01:12:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋