Women only - how can you tell if a woman that is dancing w/you is gay?

Question

I know this sounds odd. I was at a straight dance and a nice woman came up and starting talking w/me. Nothing odd there. A great song came on, so I asked her to dance. We had a lot of fun! While we were dancing - fast dancing - she would ocassionally touch my arms or shoulders. But at the end of the night, she went out of her way to say goodnight and see if I would be returning on the next friday night dance. I don't think that it was anything other than fun - after we first met, she went out of her way to introduce me to her sister. Then again who knows - and I have to admit that I'd be curious . . . .

Answer 1

it depends on how she was dancing with you, was she grinding up on you, bringing her self closer to you...nearly pushing her self onto you. how many times did you dance with her. was she really into it??? if im not feeling the vibe of it i normally keep my hands to myself and hope the song well b over soon..but if im into it ima be all over that peson showing them my moves....plus the story above mine if danced with a real hot lez and she never fondled my breast..mostly kept her hand on the side of my butt but not that xtreme...im not that way either ill jus keep my hands on your hips unless you move them else where lol ;-)

Answer 2

No she is NOT gay.

Ill tell you whats gay! Heres a story:

I went out to this reggae club in DC right. So It was me and my best friend and I already had some drinks in me. So this woman walks up to me and you know she was attractive kind of looked like Alicia Keys. So I told her this and then she told me I look like a particular celeb as well. Anyhoos, she invites me to meet her friends. They were all cool or what not, then we started dancing a bit. So then shes all grabbing my breasts and what not. So I stepped forward somewhat to dance with this guy because he was coming up to me too. She grabs me really hard and yanks me back to her and i was like HELL NO....I was outta there ASAP. lol

Trust me if she was gay your breast would have been fondled and some more. Unless shes just not aggressive, but they usually are lol...

As far as I see it, you are good to go. You probably now have a new friend.

Answer 3

You cannot tell if ANYONE is gay by how they dance. You might as well try to judge one's sexual orientation by whether they prefer apples or oranges. How do you know she wasn't "acting" for her sister? For all you know about her, she could be married and have five kids. Nothing wrong with being curious though. Just be there on Friday and find out more. -- and don't assume anything.

Kabum

Answer 4

I can answer that, 5 years ago, I went to a club with my Friends, and this guy picked me up & wanted to hook up with me, he excused himself to go to the men's room, then this girl came up to me & asked me if I wanted to dance, I said yes, she took me to the dance floor, & we started having a good time, while we were dancing, she kept on grinding up against me & feeling me up, I got up the nerve to ask her if she was attracted to me, she responed by kissing me on the lips.
An hour later, we were making out in the parking lot, I ended up going home with her,
And the guy? I threw away his number, cause i was having too much fun with this girl.

Answer 5

If that really matters to you, you can sense it whatever moves she/he does especially you are aware of and everytime she/he touches true woman is lighter than a gay 'coz gay is still a man.

Answer 6

Does it really matter? You both are hot and sweaty, touching eachother... Gay or straight.... Who cares!

Maybe when they play a "booty song" see if she is doing a "doggy style dance" with you...