how to stop having interest in them?
2007-03-10 16:56:44 · 8 answers · asked by ccfruitpunch93 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Distract yourself and give yourself time (like others have already said).
Still though often there's still a place in your heart for that person for the rest of your life even if you'd rather it not be there =/.
Best of luck!
2007-03-10 17:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by Gene M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in no way, i think of this is a controversy of guidance. maximum mom and dad do no longer good practice their infants approximately marriage and the accountability that is going with it. this is like getting a activity, they only assume you will do it and persist with it. i replaced into very fortunate to have mom and dad that have been the two divorced, so as that they placed a great quantity of attempt into coaching me approximately marriage, and the importance of becoming the properly suited judgements. understanding who you extremely are is extremely substantial too! some circumstances we are able to get this image in our minds of who we actually must be, or who we predict of we ought to consistently be, and attempt to locate a woman like that. that's the place we get into complication, instead of attempting to be something we are no longer, or have not finished yet, merely be your self. Honesty is so substantial in a relationship, it builds the beginning for have confidence, and have confidence facilitates a relationship to advance, love is the water. i in my opinion have self belief that the divorce fee in this u . s . a . is an instantaneous consequence of adverse guidance, I firmly have self belief this. youngsters are becoming up way too quickly, they have exposure to issues they ought to no longer have exposure to imho, yet this is yet another total undertaking i could truly choose for to talk sometime.
2016-12-14 16:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through a similar situation. I once did everything with a str8 male friend. We were only friends and he knew I was gay from the first day we met when I told him I was gay. I later became obsessed with wanting to always be with him. After a year, I finally told him that I was in love with him and I was going crazy by always thinking about him during the times we were not together. He remained my friend, but said he wanted to help me with my obsession. In short, he stopped doing things with me and he made new friends. Eventually he told me that my professing my love to him made him feel uncomfortable to be around me. I was soooo kicked to the curb, and I hurt badly from it. I had wished I had never told him that I loved him, because that caused him to disappear from my life. Because he made himself inaccessible to me, as time went on, I eventually thought less & less about him.
The process may hurt you emotionally, but you'll have to cut your ties with this person if they do not reciprocate the same feelings toward you. It's only right to let them live their life the way they want to live it. And if their choice is to not have you in it, you have to respect their wish.
2007-03-10 17:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by C-Bag 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the wise words of The Cherry Poppin' Daddies: "The way to get over someone is to get under someone else."
2007-03-10 17:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by lek 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you find out, let me know! I've wanted this girl I know since I met her, and I've known her for a while now.
2007-03-11 12:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find an alternative thing to do.
2007-03-10 17:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. It's the healer of all things.
2007-03-10 17:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With time. Time heals all wounds.
2007-03-10 17:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by Dick Weed 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋