What I love:
-A good sense of humor, and defined personality.
-Confidence, but not cocky.
-Someone who is an all-around nice guy and respectful
-Someone who has good hygiene.
-Intelligence is good.
Others may include in their list:
-Rich
-A large penis, high sex drive, "good" in bed, etc.
-Masculinity
-Attractive/good body
-A nice car
Still others may say:
-Talent
-Drive
-Determination
-Having an emotional side
-Close with family
-Wanting kids (Ok, I have a bit of a fetish for "family guys"..hehe)
-And a million other things...
The point is, different women want different things in a guy. Some things matter more to others. The only way to know what women want is to meet them and find out. Everyone is different. You will quickly learn that women who only care about how much money you make are ironically not usually worth much themselves. I'm not saying that having a stable job is not important, but you have to like someone for who they are, not what they earn.
That said, most women do NOT love the following:
-Guys who are VERY cheap on the first date (assuming you are adults with jobs). If you take her to Burger King (AND make her pay for the both of you), don't expect to get a call back. Even if you're Brad Pitt. It's a no-no. If you can't afford a moderately priced place, take her on a picnic, or go for ice-cream.
-Rude and/or jealous guys. Very few women like this, if any.
-Guys who are arrogant and full of themselves.
-Guys who refuse to talk about anything other than football.
-Guys who are very forward sexually, or flirt with other women in front of you.
-Guys who are TOO available. Play a little hard to get.
2007-03-10 17:04:31
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answered by reginachick22 6
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Dude, that's a question that boggles all our minds. Girls drool over the guys with six pack abs and huge biceps, but that's just what they are attracted to, not what they are looking for in the personality. Every girl is different, so it's not really a thing you can determine and single out.
I've noticed girls still in high school and college tend to go for the guys who are tall, have long sideburns, and dress preppy- you know, striped shirts that are really tight on them and stuff. Lately, I've noticed a lot of them falling for guys with curly, mini-afro-like hair. But the preppy clothes seem to be a hit. Punk clothes...not so much. And I think they believe gothic guys don't shower, so that won't work.
On a more mature level, I'd say that women like the overall kindness, gentleman mannerisms, and a good sense of humor in a man. Somebody fun to be around but who will treat her well, fair, and like a woman.
But...I've yet to have a girlfriend, and I've been trying since kindergarden, haha. I never believed in cooties. Girls have always been awesome in my eyes. But, that's my take on it. Good luck.
2007-03-10 16:59:34
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answered by Anonymous
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I have 4 basic features that make a man attractive. (Note:these aren't the ONLY four features that I like. They're just the ones that I put HIGH importance on.)
1. His relationship with God-to me, this is the root of a great personality.
2. His body-big penis, flat abs, muscular legs and chest
3.Self esteem-has confidence in himself and in what he can do. Doesn't need people to reassure him.
4.Conversation/sense of humor-I love to talk, and I love to laugh!
2007-03-11 06:58:39
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answered by godlyteengirl 3
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1. You are right darling my ex is a moose. 2. I love it when you order salad and eat all my chips. 3. Of course your Mother can come to stay, i will paint the spare room.
2016-03-28 23:50:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Brain.
2007-03-10 19:51:23
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answered by shirin_no66 2
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imho if you are a man you should be looking for a woman not a girl.
2007-03-10 16:52:25
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answered by Melius 7
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Cars, Cash, and Boats.
2007-03-11 01:47:02
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answered by Anonymous
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1) he better be intelligent as hell
2) he better be honest as hell
3) it helps if he looks good as hell
4) he better be able to hold a stable career cuz he's not tapping into my gucci shoe funds....
2007-03-10 16:59:35
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answered by Haiti Cherie 4
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someone with a sense of humor, someone who is caring and shows it, someone with a bit of romance in his soul, someone who takes responsibility for things he should.
2007-03-10 19:15:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Respect, honesty and consideration
2007-03-11 20:42:49
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answered by Sydney 5
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