if your husband went out with his freinds and then told you about all the girls he talked to when he was out the nit e before? his freinds are all single and my husband never wears his wedding ring he comes home after the bars are closed but he has cheated on me before. he is much younger than i am, when he drinks he turns into don juan!
2007-03-10 16:32:51 · 14 answers · asked by tristy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband's at a bar now, and here I am sitting here at the computer waiting for him like a nerd.
I know he would never cheat though, so I'm not worried about that, I just wish he just wouldn't go to bars!!!
2007-03-10 17:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why are you still married? If he doesn't respect you enough to come home and he has cheated on you, then what makes you stay. Single friends and guys mean trouble. If he is not wearing his wedding ring, then get rid of him. He is using you. He wants to live the single life and keep you on the side. It doesn't work that way. Find someone who treats you with respect and that wants to spend time with you, rather than with their friends in the local bars. You are too good for that.
2007-03-11 01:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is not the answer to what you really need. Getting your husband to be a man about what he wants from your marriage would be a start. Sounds like he's younger from his immaturity of boosting about his indiscretion to upset you, and you let him get away with it. Let him know that the only things open when he gets home are legs & motels so he'll know that his cheating has to stop if this is what you want.
2007-03-11 00:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder what he was doing if he didn't brag to me about what females he talked with. My husband works with alot of females and he often gets hit on by them or at least that is what he tells me.....anyway, when you are married jealously is an ugly thing. IT does not belong in a marriage.
Either way, you have to go with your intuition on the issues with your man and what the facts are telling you (things you may or may not find).
I trust my husband, not that he has not lied to me, but when he has, he's always gotten caught in the lie so he knows better than to try that anymore.
2007-03-11 01:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by indygurl3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has nothing to do with jealousy. These are real issues that are going to predict the outcome of your marriage if you don't put a stop to it now. A married man hanging out with single men, at bars, with women, gets back home after bar closes, etc...etc... Actions speak volumes. Go to therapy
2007-03-11 00:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealous no pissed off yes if my husband didn't wear his wedding ring I would know that some was going on and if he cheated once he'll do it again find a real man that will love you and forget about him
2007-03-11 00:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by hollidayfun@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it were ME no...because I don't have a husband to begin with...LOL. Besides I'm not the jealous type. I wouldn't get jealous over him talking to anyone...I talk to men all the time, did so when I was married...doesn't mean I was in bed with them. You obviously have trust issues...you either need to get past them, get counseling or end your marriage because sooner or later those issues will end it for you.
2007-03-11 00:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex never wore his ring, big surprise, he cheated. He sounds just like my ex. Always trying to make me jealous. You need to get some help and leave him. Trust me, you will be happier without all the lies and jealousy. He is not ready to be married.
2007-03-11 00:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. There are some real issues here. You and your husband need couples counseling. I would really urge you to explore it, and if he resists the idea, maybe that's a clearer answer than any you'd find here.
2007-03-11 00:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I wouldn't have allowed him to go out alone with his friends in the first place.
2007-03-11 01:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋