car, and live in a fixed income,have diabetis,.so my question is what are my chances of ever meeting a good man,an my life ever improveing?an if your were in my shoes what would you do ,?if you were delt my pitiful life
2007-03-10 16:27:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
with prayer anything is possible !
2007-03-11 01:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Your life sounds a little rough, but I don't see why any of those things would affect your chances of finding a man. I don't think men turn down a woman because she is poor. You didn't mention anything about being horribly unattractive, so hopefully you have some looks going for you. 40 is not very old, just try to get out more. See if your friends know of any men that might be interested. You could find the man and he'll marry you, give you kids, fix your car, and move you out of the trailor. Stay positive and try to be content where you are at the moment. Nothing wrong with wanting someone, but you don't need a man to make you happy. As for the money, trailor, and sickness you still have a lot to be thankful for. Even with all that, you still live in better conditions than the majority of people around the world.
2007-03-10 16:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by melissa 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A 17-year difference will not work in the long run. Right now both of you are fairly young and active, but things will change. What happens when you are 35 and he is 52. At that point, you are in different stages of life. This won't work even if he is not married. Dating married people is a poor idea to begin with. His relationship with a 40-year +/- old wife w/kids is probably not as exciting or liberating one with a 23-year old single. But he's not leaving his wife. Move on and leave him be.
2016-03-28 23:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, my uncle is probably your neighbor- he's a good man (served a little time) no big deal. He has money lots of it although I'm not sure where he gets it from. He drives a great van all raised up and a real pretty thing. He lost an arm when he was shot during a drug raid (wrong place wrong time) so you might want to look him up, rite next door past the bit bulls, he's usually out front havin a beer don't worry about the time of day he's always out there. he's looking for a girlfriend look him up he'll change the way you look at life.
2007-03-10 19:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that I can tell you is to keep your chin up. Some times life really sucks. I have known a lot of people that have been in your shoes. Try to take it one day at a time. Who knows maybe you'll run into that special someone while your out shopping, or on a trip or something. If you are really lonely try getting a puppy or cat to keep you company. That may sound ridiculous, but having someone to come home to at night really can make a difference. They also are very good listeners, and they will never judge you.
2007-03-10 16:36:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You might begin by learning to love and accept yourself. After all, if you can't love yourself, how can you expect anyone else to love you? Remember, you are unique in your own universe,you are very special, you are wonderful and fantastic. Honor yourself, acknowledge yourself for the great person you are. You are complete in yourself, you don't need anyone. If you can truly learn to love and accept yourself you will find that others will be attracted to you. People admire those who feel comfortable in their own skin. So be the kind of person you would like to have as your friend. And your life will reflect your attitude. You can't control what the universe brings to you but you can control how you look at it. So look at your blessings, be filled with gratitude and put aside your negative thoughts. Your life is exactly as it should be, and will be exactly what you make it. All of us live in our heads, so learn to live with enjoyment and pleasure inside your own head.
2007-03-10 17:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't say if there's any reason you can't work...get a job and find an apartment. save your money and get a decent car. diabetes doesn't have to control your life. alot of people are dealt an unfair hand.Quit worrying about meeting a good man to save you and save yourself
2007-03-10 16:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Queenie Peavey 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
first of all you need to stop putting your self down.. we all have
issues that we deal with that does not mean that you can not
have a full life. you just need to start living your life for your self
god has a plan for each of us. you just need to find your
journey. but dont give up hope,make small change in your
life then take it one step at a time. but dont give up.god love
you so dont every give up. peace be with you.
2007-03-10 16:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
U shud be truthful about ur present situation as and when u enter into a relationship.
2007-03-10 17:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We all deal with what we're "delt"....it's time to play your hand.
2007-03-10 16:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Chantilylace 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
take the bull by the horns and make something happen! what are you doin to change it?
2007-03-10 16:42:53 · answer #11 · answered by waterboy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋