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Have you ever happened to overhear one of your friends' conversations about you? A conversation in which they have no clue that you are totally listening to them? What if they are good friends to you when you whenever you are around, but just this 1 time you hear some apalling opinions coming from them? What are you supposed to do? Do you just disregard the statements they made? Or do you stop associating yourself with them? How would you handle it?

2007-03-10 16:24:17 · 18 answers · asked by Dirtboy 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

18 answers

Never been there but I'm sure if I over heard my "so called" friends talking about me behind my back they'd be wondering why I no longer had anything to do with them. Wouldn't give them the time of day or p**s on them if they were on fire. Not even an explanation, they wouldn't deserve it and would probably just try to lie their way out of it.

2007-03-10 16:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0 0

I would either confront them or stop associating with them. But if they are really a true friend, its better to confront them,if they are talking about you that means that they really don't care for you or they would not be talking about you behind your back. Its hard to find real friends, real friends will tell you stuff to your face, My best friend will tell in a minute that i was dumb and stupid for doing somethings There are a lot of people I keep at arms length, I really only have about 5 real friends and I grew up with 3 of them, and they just keep it real. If that was me, I would confront them, and if I had heard them i would have been trying to record them with my voice memo on my cell phone.

2007-03-10 16:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ice Queen 5 · 1 0

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2016-10-18 02:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by balikos 4 · 0 0

If I overheard my so called friends saying negative things about me I would definitely let them know I heard them. Friends support and defend their friends...they don't talk about them behind their backs. I would ask them why they were saying stuff behind your back and if they really felt that way why didn't they say it to your face. Whether or not you associate with them after that depends on the relationship you have with them. You have to decide if you should give them another chance or not.

2007-03-10 16:29:24 · answer #4 · answered by AnaBoo 2 · 1 0

i have been there. im from the streets where if some body say some sh*t behind your back you whupp them. period point blank. you have to think about what they said was it disrespectful and how does it change the way you see the person. i say you got 2 choices whupp them and stay friends and now you know them and how they are and dont put no more sh*t past they b*tch azz.

2007-03-10 16:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by cashville_con 3 · 0 0

I know exactly what you mean. My "friend" has done it to me. I confronted her about it. I told her how I felt and if she did it again I wouldn't want to talk to her anymore. I felt like I wasn't being treated fairly since I never talked about her behind my back. Just talk to your friend and if they do it again they probably aren't a true friend. Hope everything works out!

2007-03-10 16:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by KT 3 · 1 0

Most people do this to make themselves seem better, bigger, badder...It means they are insecure in some way! If they are your friend they wouldn't do that..but just in case they are too stupid to realize it ...say something ..They will either apologize to your face or you might become better friends because you can have someone to talk about things that bug you too!!

2007-03-10 16:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 1 0

i would stop associating with them. a true friend will not talk behind my back about me. they will confront me and tell me what their opinion is. i would also be honest with them in my case. i don't care wether i only have one friend as long as it is the real one.

2007-03-10 16:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I would make sure to leave that "so called friend" because I don't need the burden, pain, worry, and stress in my life of them. No one needs bad friends....

2007-03-10 16:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by Daughter of a Coma Guy 7 · 1 0

i don't know why they do it i used to have a friend like that in 6th grade. i would handle it by not really talking ot them. =Y

2007-03-10 16:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by Female 4 · 0 0

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