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My friend will tell me something or make a comment, and then say I'm the one who said it. Or I will loan him $65.00 and he swears it was only $45.00. He is the only friend I have that has ever did this to me. He claims I am the crazy one!! He lies to me all the time and then says I am the one who lies. He steals things and then accuses me of being a thief. He talks bad about me to his mother and others. Yet will not stay away from me. He says he's sorry for talking bad about me then does it again. He has his mother thinking I am a terrible person and she doesn't even want me in her house. I think he has a mental problem. Maybe bi-polar. He is convinced he is right about me being the one who said what he really said, It starts big arguments. He goes as far to say that he wishes he had a tape recorder. Even his other friends tell me he has done the same to them. Should I get the tape recorder and show him he is losing it? He is also suicidal!! I also have money and medications missing!

2007-03-10 16:23:20 · 5 answers · asked by sash 5 in Family & Relationships Friends

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Its fuunny ..we have names for everthing we do wrong these days. When I was younger my parents just smacked me and said be still and pay attention to the teacher and you know what I did..!! Yup i stopped screwin around and paid attention. These days we excuse it by sayin they are a.d.d.
give me a break..The guy is a liar and a cheat. Tell him so and tell him if he wants to remain your friend he'll stop doing it!! ( or not ) remember your the one making the complaint!!

2007-03-10 16:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dark Knight 3 · 0 0

This person may be flirting with more of a problem than talking bad about a friend. This sounds like a drug problem. What makes you think that you are going to help this person??? Can you see, if you are trying to tell him the truth, and he is claiming it is you that is lying it may not help. I have a sister that is on the verge of a mental break down, and she thinks her sisters are the reason. I have quit talking to her, since I would never dream of injuring her. If she thinks I am the problem, then I will let her alone. Perhaps you should consider it.

2007-03-10 16:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by lilly 2 · 0 0

ok well the best way is to................ well u dont want to hurt his feelings!!!!! so what i say is to do the idea that u need to do and then u know show it to him if he denies it and says is a fake well he is not ur friend.....................if u dont want to loose him as a friend then welll u need to work it out and talk about it with all of the friends he did bad stuff to!!! and just talk about it and say he needs to change if not well just tell him theres concequences tha tu guys wont be his friend but also help him through and well he borrows 65.00 and says he swears it was 45.00 just give him a recite (jk) just tell him no i swear its 65.00. He dinies it then well just dont lend him any more money enough said.

2007-03-10 16:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by starfairy300 1 · 0 0

A tape recorder may help prove you are right. He does sound like he may need a little help especially if he is stealing money and medicine. If he won't stay away from you maybe you should stay away from him before something happens and you get blamed.

2007-03-10 16:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by AnaBoo 2 · 0 0

do the tape thing and buy the way try to make friends

2007-03-10 16:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by singingqeen 1 · 0 0

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