I feel so sad?

Question

i just been accepted to chapman university in orange


i was reading about the school and read that most of the people there looked as if they came out of a abercrombie and fitch magazine....its going to make me feel so ugly

...i have pimples and hopefully my accutane will clear my face...

but in terms in height im 5ft 6 or 5ft 7 and 18.....i think i stopped growing...what can I do.....

I hate my height soo much....u dont't even know how it feels to have a person standing next to you way taller...it makes you feel inferior in a way

Answer 1

honey, i'm 5'2" on a good day. I KNOW how it feels. don't worry, go to school for the education. all else will fall into place at the right time! do you know how many other incoming freshman will be feeling the same way?!

Answer 2

Hey Grow up, there is no need to feel sad over your looks or your height. God has designed everybody differently and if you aren't taller it doe snot matter maybe you have other talents. Be happy with what you have, don't compare your self to others. You are much more lucky than most people are. Think positive- There is nothing inferior about you. Its only when we under-estimate our capabilities do we feel our-self inferior to others. now look at it this way - there would be so many trying to get into the Chapman university - Is it not good that you are acpected to Chapman university - you should feel happy about it. Don't you think you are capable enough. So stop feeling inferior and cheer up!!!!
Best of luck for your future.

Answer 3

Starting new in a school where no one knows you is the perfect time to be your own person.
You get to change your out look on life and make it better for who you are.
Most of the time when in high school, kids tend to do stuff for others or to impress others.
So if you're feeling bad about yourself don't let it show.
Be confident in who you are and what you are.
Don't make it obvious that you're unsure because people will see that and stay away from you because they aren't going to want to hang out with you if you're down about your looks.
I don't think your height should be a problem. So you're not six feet tall.. Not sure anyone would really care about that.
As for the pimples you can fix that.
If your hair is oily and is hanging in your face or on your forehead, get it off of there. It isn't good for your skin. Keep your hair as clean as you can. Wash your face with mild soap a few times a day if you can. It's all about keeping that oil off your face.

You don't have to but you can change the style of clothes you wear as well. If you're not comfortable.. Get comfortable. Look online as some styles for guys of your height and see what they look like and see if you think you would be comfortable in those styles. It's all about playing up your features. You don't have to buy clothes from those ritzy clothing stores but you can get the same kind of styles at department stores or even wal mart.

But the best way to go is as you are. Be yourself and be confident about it.

Answer 4

trrrrrust me.... at college there are SO many diverse people, you defintely won't feel like an outsider. there's no way everybody in one school is good-looking. I doubt everybody looks the same, and if they do that's really lame, and you should be happy to be unique. You can't do anything about your height (i'm short too, so i know what you mean). you're only 18 and a male so you might still be growing (most boys dont stop growing until their early 20s), and i'm sure your face will clear up little by little (1. because you're using medication for it, and 2. because you're body will mature and adolescent features will eventually fade). Don't be sad! Goodluck at school, and i hope this helps!

Answer 5

If you look for acceptance from others to bring you happiness, you may never find it. Remember, you are a unique human being...no more or less than all the others that God has made. Trying to stick to your values at this point will help and remain with throughout life and ten-twenty years later, you'll laugh away thinking what you think of now. Recommended reading- Positive thinking for young adults and Courage& confidence by Norman Vincent Peale. (And just for the record, I am not even a christian)

Answer 6

u know what, guys can be taller up to the age of 21. height should not be a gauge of your self-image. so what if there are taller guys than u, it doesnt make u less of a person.

pimples are part of our lives. u can have it at any age. it just so happens that young adolescents are more prone to acne coz of the overactive sebaceous glands at this phase. and remember pimples are only temporary. give time for your accutane to work.

cheer up. you're still young. have fun and make the most out of it.

Answer 7

u shouldnt feel bad u know or sad every girl is different and not everybody is preaty .....The beauty of a girl is what lies inside.
The heart that beats not the cover on the outside.
The kindness in her soul and the light that shines through her eyes.
so you see beauty comes from the inside not the outside...and i think u should be very proud that you got accepted to chapman university in oragen .......and yes i know how u feel when someone taller than u is standing next to u but i ignore it it doesnt matter

Answer 8

a lot of the Ambercrobie and fitch models are not that great looking, besides didn't your parents tell you to be yourself and no one else? Be confident!

good luck and congrats ")

Answer 9

you should be proud of who you are you are going to study and you are probably smarter than those tall people meaning what those peolpe have of tall they have it of stupid and what you have of short you have of smart.