One of my labia minora's is veryy larger than the other and is a veryyy darker color. =[[
Its due to when i was younger i was fondling with it and the skin stretch. when i realized i stopped immediatly. it sticks out part the labia majora but not much but its so uneven and the color. It just upsets me and i'm afraid to have sex with my bf about this. He knows about it but he hasnever seen it.
And i;m afirad of what he'll think when he performs oral on me.
I don't want to get it cut. but its just teh color that upsets me.
2007-03-10 15:51:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Oh Hon...try not to let it get to you...for the idiots that have no compassion reading your story...karma guys karma...your bf won't care about it trust me...its normal..its about you not what colour your labia is
2007-03-10 16:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Happy2bAlive 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is not causing you any pain I wouldn't worry about it because for most women it is normal to have a bit of unevenness. As for darkness of the skin color, that is normal too for some women.
Unfortunately for me I had problems with pain with mine so had to have surgery to remove the excess skin off the left labia minora and it was the worst decision I ever made. And yes I thought I was doing the right thing at the time. Since that procedure I have had nothing but problems and would not recommend it to anyone.
2007-03-11 07:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by sokokl 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
A lot of women who have lopsided labia think there's something wrong with them, but it's perfectly normal. No too labia are alike. They come in all shapes, colors, sizes and varieties. Your fondling has nothing to do with the size difference. Check out a few of Betty Dobson's books like "Sex for One" or sites like clitical.com
You'll find many articles about this issue. I hope you'll feel better about yourself and appreciate what you have. ^_^
2007-03-11 00:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by Johar 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You know, you almost sound like you've got BDD, where you focus on a part of the body no one has issues with. I hate to say it hun, but chances are if hes havin sex with you, the colour and length of your labia are gonna be the last thing on his mind. Besides, sex should be done in a dim environment, not in the middle of the day. Light some candle sparcely spaced around the room, not only will he not see it, but i promise, he wont care.
2007-03-10 23:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
As a guy...
I think you shouldn't worry about it. You should be loved for the person you are.
I love my wife. I accept every part of her and I know that there are things that I like more and things that I like less but I love her more than anything and am more than happy to take the bad with the good.
Unless it causes physical pain, don't worry about it.
2007-03-10 23:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by pukcipriavroc8v 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I have the exact same problem. It is actually quite common. My only issues are with underwear, but as far as my boyfriend, we've been together 6 years and it has never been a problem with him or anyone else I've been intimate with. We've discussed it and it doesn't really mean as much to them as it does to us. Trust me, it's 100% normal to be nervous but you'll be fine!
2007-03-10 23:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by J 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it.
2007-03-11 00:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by Steamysteam 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
self conscious huh? why not tell everyone on here. he's not gonna care about that trust me
2007-03-10 23:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
that sounds NORMAL
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i think it's supposed to be like that?
2007-03-10 23:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
so what do you want me to tell you? get over it.
2007-03-10 23:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 12⤋