I am completly alone. I hate this so much. All of my "friends" pretty much secretly hate me. they LOVE to see me suffer and make me sit by myself at lunch on random days just because they want to see what i'll do. they plan things without me, talk bad about me, and im sick of it. its not like i can make new friends either i go to a small school with about 6 other girls in my grade.. and they are all agenst me, but act like my friends. please bring me up from this. i dont konw what to do. theres prolly no way anyone can help me. ill just sit here and cry. i dont expect answers, although they are appreciated.
2007-03-10 15:30:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
gurl....i am soooo sorry = ( those so called "friends" of yours are a bunch of jerks....i don't really know what to tell you eccept it's okay to cry.....it's alright....everybody needs a moment to get away and just cry.....sob.....SCREAM!!!!! i know how you feel.....i used to go to a small school and every body hated me.....i didn't really get through it....but trust me....crying my eyes out helped a LOT!!!!!
2007-03-10 15:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by The Sun Still Sleeps... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well war usually is not the answer. but if these steps don't work...
ok first
1. if they plan things w/ out u, don't try and find out where they r going and crash the party. they'll hate you more if u do that.
2. when they talk bad about u, just ignore it even though i know how hard it is to do that
3. if they try to make you suffer by making u sit alone or something, act like you are enjoying yourself.
4. if u ask them if u can sit with them and they say no then walk away with a smile on your face.
this will be really hard for a while. but trust me, its all worth it in the end. they usually become friends w/ you after about 2-3weeks of this. good luck! if u need more help email me. tinkerbell2598_94@yahoo.com
2007-03-10 15:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not to sound mean off the bat, but do you think it is something that you have done or the way you have acted before that makes them "not like you"? because in most cases, people don't just randomly decide to hate a person out of the blue. but im not saying that you did anything, because i dont even know you.
Well, there's going to be some kind of resolution eventually, seeing that there are only 6 girls in your grade. It sucks when everyone gangs up on you, but try to stay strong, and it may seem hard but don't give them the satisfaction of letting them know its working. they are trying to be mean, but they could just be jealous
or try making a few guy friends. they can be cool sometimes.
hang in there girlie! there are always always people in your life that love you, even if you don't see it right away.
2007-03-10 15:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by S W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your friends are crappy. See the problem is you are showing them you are weak by giving in to the games. Be strong. Try to find something to do at lunch. This way if you could keep busy they can see you are not worried about how mean they are to you. Try hanging out with the guys. Guys can make the best-est of friends and they will keep the drama down by a minimum. You use the word Friends. Friends do not treat people like this... You don't need them.. Friends do not make friends cry.. Smile... Pooh on them... You Rock!!!
2007-03-10 15:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by prettybrowneyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll try to help, although I may not be able to help much.
I would recommend talking to them about it, just something like, "Hey, I've noticed you guys have been kinda mean to me lately, is everything okay?" It could just be that since you don't speak up (I'm not sure if you do or not), they may think you don't like them.
They may not be meaning to hurt you, but you could just be interpreting it that way.
If after talking to them about it nothing changes, I'd say you should branch out and make new friends. They don't have to be in the same grade as you, or even go to the same school as you, just be yourself.
Hope I helped :)
2007-03-10 15:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by MyRandomness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 02:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know EXACTLY!! how you feel i have the same problem.if your friends are doing that to you ,then they are not your friends.if they like watching you cry,then they have no care about you or the world.but never feel that way,never cry thinking that you are all alone.my mom told me,god is always beside you and is always your friend.what you should do is that when ever your so called friends come up to you to see you cry in misorri just gather all your braveness and tell them that your not my friends.you care only about your self and just make my life worse .then just walk away.you never know once they are out of the way,a loving boy or another friend,might lift the lonlyness off your sholders leaving you Xfriends in the darkness.that is how i servived my lonlyness.
2007-03-10 15:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by Jazzmine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... cheer up, ur not alone, i was kind of in ur situation not exactly but close, i used to be this nerdy kid throught elementary and pretty much through middle school, now i'm high school and i hate it when people pick on kids and bully them, so u should stand up for yourself and do somethin, don't let them get a laugh out of u, i got up and now if someone picks on me its gonna go worse for them, so cheer up :)
2007-03-10 15:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah screw them. Go have fun outside your circle and meet new people. You don't have to have all your friends from one place.
Anyway my bunny Spooky says you better stop crying or he will be sad too! (don't make him sad)
2007-03-10 15:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try doing stuff in community, find new stuff to do make new friends outside of school and screw them all.
They're not worth your time and they are not your friends otherwise they wouldn't do stuff without you.
2007-03-12 17:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by Scpwnz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋