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There is this guy in school, who is really HOT!!!!! The bad part is, he already likes someone. He switches people every year. How can I get him to like me next year????? He and I have a lot of things in common. Should I do anything chnge how I look or anything????

2007-03-10 15:26:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style Fashion & Accessories

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I'm sorry, but you can't get someone to like you.
Ask yourself this: Would you be able to like someone who you totally don't like?

But still, it doesn't hurt to try. Get to know him more and show him the real you. He might like you. If he doesn't, you can't do anything much.

Moreover, he already likes someone. You said that he changes girlfriend everyyear. That makes him a player. You wouldn't want him to go out with you for one year and then dump you for another girl, would you?

DON'T change yourself. You are who you are and don't let a guy make you want to be who you are not.

If you want to attract his attention, talk to him more, wear nice clothes, and most importantly, be yourself.

2007-03-10 15:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by maltese_1992 3 · 1 0

well since he's hot and he switches people, then i'd say be careful. he could be a player or a social climber. but if he's not then just be yourself (most important) and flirt around with him. find out what he likes and engage a conversation with him that he can get into. or you could even offer to help him with something. if he doesn't like you for you, don't change because he isn't worth it.

2007-03-10 23:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by Cypress 1 · 1 0

you shouldnt change how you look just to get a guy! be yourself.
dont try to become someone else just to get 1 guy to like you when he's just going to change who he dates the next year. you might even find yourself heartbroken. also there are plenty of guys out there who should like you for who you are not what you are not. also why would you want to wait and be the next girl who he dates and brake up with ?

2007-03-10 23:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I am sure you have heard this a million times.
1. Dont change for him. If you do and he likes that then you are going to be miserable trying to change for him.
2. Dont be all cheap and stare at him and wink and stuff. It turns him off.
So be yourself and youll do great!

2007-03-10 23:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Allie 2 · 1 0

is it worth it???
it's like when you do that, then he is in control of the relationship and makes you look cheap and desperate.
that's why he keeps choosing a different girl each year, so that he can make use of them to boost his own ego and then dropping her when it suits him.
thing would be different if he likes you for who you already are and not for something that you did to attract his attention.
and since you have alot in common with him and if he hadn't already noticed you,
then why should he start noticing you now, except to take advantage of you????
wouldn't it be cooler if you can be one of the girls that ignored him instead???
hey..!!!! maybe it would start him noticing you instead???
God bless,
gabe

2007-03-10 23:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by gabegm1 4 · 1 0

don't change yourself so he likes you. he'll figure out that your fake and he won't like you. and that's really wierd that you want to be the girl he likes next year. idk it jsut sounds wierd like he reserves people he likes every year or something. but anyways, just be yourself. if he likes you, then he likes you. if not, than he won't. and don't change yourself to what he likes you.

if you guys have a lot in common just talk to him this year. and if you do have a lot in common, then he'll like you.

you can't force someone to like you. been there, done that. doesn't work.

2007-03-10 23:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

you should pluck your eyebrows, wear some blush, moisturize your face, wear a lip-gloss, do your hair in a high pony tail, i hope this makes you look different! if not, you can email me, joyfuljadey@yahoo.com

2007-03-10 23:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jade 1 · 0 3

get to know his personality. let him know urs. youll see.

2007-03-10 23:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by illustrator #12 3 · 0 0

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