i'm 18 years old and i'm pregant w/ my ex bf's child and i have no idea how to tell him i'm having his kid. the thing is me and him talk like 1 a week and i don't know the right word to say. so if you can please help me!
2007-03-10 14:54:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well the best thing to do is if you are still friends to talk friend to friend and go some where peacefull but quiet were you can talk and stuff bring to seperate cars so that if one gets alittle fustrated you dont have to drive with the other. then just say it gentaly to him that you didnt mean for it to happend but you are pregnant and wanted him to know that its his and all. then if he doesnt want to help an stuff when the baby is born you have alot to deal with. for now just talk to him and take care of your self get to the doctor, stay healthy,take vitamins, and get all the stuff you need for the baby when it comes. best of luck
2007-03-10 15:04:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda know how you feel, im also 18 and im preg with my b/f's baby but he didnt want to have a baby yet. Its very important that you tell your ex right away, the longer you wait the worse it is. Next time you talk to him ask him to come over or if he can meet you somewhere and tell him that your preg. with his baby. itll be a little much for him to handle so he may need some time to let is soak in.
2007-03-10 15:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do, is come right out and tell him that you are pregnant with his child. I know it may be hard, but you'll pull through it. Good luck to you and best wishes!!
2007-03-10 14:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Me_Myself_&_I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Sunshine. You have to just come out and tell him. "Listen, I just took a pregnancy test the other day. It was positive." The longer you wait, the harder it will be. He may get upset because you didn't tell him right away.
2007-03-10 14:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are pregnant, and see if he is responsible to take care of his actions, and if not you will be strong and I know that someone can help you raise the baby. BEST OF LUCK!!!
2007-03-10 14:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How hard can it be? Just tell him. If he's an ex already what's the big deal?
2007-03-10 15:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better to tell him now .... the longer you wait the less he will believe that the child is actually his ~ and honestly he needs to know so that he can start figuring out what he needs to do
2007-03-10 15:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by ~*common sense*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you are just going to have to come straight out and tell him, good luck
2007-03-10 14:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow.....good luck with that(wowwww)
2007-03-10 14:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Armen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋