I have a friend who's a girl and I wrote that I love her on the table and ever since she saw that, she has been ignoring me, what can I do to get her to start talking to me again?
2007-03-10 14:13:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Apparently she doesn't have the same feelings that you do, and have made her feel awkward. I would leave her alone, go out of your way not to sit next to her or walk beside her, just kind of vanish from her site for awhile. That way she should begin to understand what life would be like without you around. She will probably start to wonder why you no longer follow her around like a little puppy and maybe she will come and look for you, try not to be so easy to find. Go para sailing, bungee jumping, jump out of a perfectly good air plane, that way at least when she does come around, you'll have plenty to talk about. Maybe get a part time job in a music store, that way you'll become familiar with all the hip music and there will be plenty of little hotties to keep your mind entertained. Women love worldly men.
2007-03-10 14:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience I have completely broken off friendships because boys have done that. What you did made you look kind of weird and creepy in her eyes. She doesn't want to lead you on and you make her feel uncomfortable. Leave her alone for a while and stay on the friend level and make it noticeable you want to to stay on the friend level... or you just might lose her. Leave her alone. No flirting or anything close to that. No talking about her in class-- it will make her feel uncomfortable. Just leave her alone and continue acting as a friend. And if that doesn't work then just... say bye
2007-03-10 14:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sagira Tadashi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be embarrassed and not know what to say. Just start talking to her, don't wait for her to initiate the conversation. Never be ashamed of your feelings or disclosing them, but as a general rule, it is a good idea to judge how someone feels about you before you say you love them...of course, there are all kinds of love, and you may love her as a friend, not a lover.
2007-03-10 14:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I learned is that some females dont like that. I prefer that they tell me that. Dont be a chaser. Let them come to you.
2007-03-10 14:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she got your message.
2007-03-10 14:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋