we do everything together. we even wrestle. i really do love but i am scared to tell him because we have such a good friendship already. I guess i just want alittle more of him. I want a reason to lean on his shoulder when we watch a movie.
2007-03-10 13:56:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe he is just very oblivious, or perhaps you are not sending the proper signals that you intend to, perhaps he senses your attempts but is not interested, maybe he is but is just too shy to and only sees you as his friend and does not want to change that status right now, sending signals are difficult because you are not always guaranteed that they are being read the right way, just tell him, and you will get your answer because guessing will just lead you to be more frustrated!
2007-03-10 14:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You grew too fond of him, and you love him. It is totally risky, cos you dont know if he is feeling the same way. If he i your best friend, you dont need more reason to lean on his shoulders. If he turns his back on you, im sorry to tell you he doesnt like you that way. If you are still clinging on him, you should give him a light kiss. There might be consequences. He mite ask you why he did it? You should tell him. If he really doesnt feel the same way, you should take a break. If there was no hard feelings, then yall are meant to be friends only. Good luck.
2007-03-10 22:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even as a friend, you can lean on his shoulder. he won't get any signals because what he feels for you is just friendship. girl, if you really want him to know and it is that important to you, better tell him. maybe he will understand what you feel and not lose the friendship you have with each other. it is really your choice.
2007-03-10 22:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it takes guts, but you have to let him know how you feel. Otherwise he's likely to never think about it and if he does.. obviously he's just being quiet about it. Nothing happens like they do in the movies. I had the same scenerio and we just let it go and never said anything and now it's too late. Next time you're in the movie just put your head on his shoulder. If he reacts funny then just hit him in the forehead with a piece of popcorn and tell him to take it like a man and lay back down lol. Worst case scenerio is he doesn't feel the same way ... and in that case just tell him you were kidding.
2007-03-10 22:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Viv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he knows and he is just scared to loose your friendship
2007-03-10 22:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by margaret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he do not want to ruion you all relationship as friends so do not rush it take it slow and go with the flow.
2007-03-10 21:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by weeping eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋