2007-03-10 13:48:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My appearance=confidence=happiness. I feel better when I feel I look better. Not necessarily right but it is how it is
2007-03-10 13:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. i am overweight but my overall happiness comes from within. being comfortable with the kind of person i am and my daily life are more defining of my happiness. i know that i treat people with respect whether i know them or not. i know that i am the best wife and mother i can possible be regardless of what i look like on the outside.
about five years ago, i was in a life threatening situation and had to have a colostomy. we thought it was going to be permanent. thank goodness it wasn't--i only had it for nine months. but now i have huge ugly scars on my stomach. and during the nine months, i still felt sexy because my hubby reminded me every day that he loves me and that he is thankful that i am still allive. we continued our great sex life even with the colostomy.
if your appearance determines your overall happiness then you are shallow and vain.
2007-03-10 21:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not because I am who I am even if I put on some tube socks and a shirt that says **** off istill maybe happy and you would not even think so by that note.So be yourself and if he or she do not like it let them know you are free and very happy to expresss it an your own way.
2007-03-10 21:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by weeping eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you like the way you look it makes you very happy. But i don't believe its every thing about your happiness. I do find that being happy and not letting things bother you is alot easier than being depressed and emotional.
2007-03-10 21:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but i do sometimes associate my attitude with my appearance.
If im wearing sweats or a robe i feel sleepy and unenergized.
lol
If i put makeup on and comb my hair I feel like im going somewhere even if im not. ahaha!
2007-03-10 21:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe most women would agree that if you get up and put on your make-up. dress nice you have a better out look on life. Men though, they could care less, comb their hair and brush their teeth and their out the door, everydays about the same.
2007-03-10 22:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i do. if i am happy or contented or basically feel good about myself or anything, i usually exert more effort to be more presentable. but if i am miserable, i don't bother too much with my appearance.
2007-03-10 21:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do feel happier and more confident when I am dressed nice. I also feel happier when I am at my desired weight. So yes, I am afraid I do.
2007-03-10 21:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no , but i notice I am happier the immediate days after payday
2007-03-10 21:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by smoothopr_2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yer i think that it is normal for people
2007-03-10 21:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋