TTC for 1 yr, had my 2nd appointment with the GYN yesterday. Spent most of the day crying. I was told once again that I may not be able to have any more children. I have the one little boyby luck I guess. I was told before him that I woul NEVER be able to have kids. I have had endometriosis (strike 1) since 1998, I have had 2 surgeries (which is strike 2 against me), and then I had to have a c-section (strike 3). The doctor now says I have to undergo all these procedures and feel like the world is ending to me. Yeah I know drama.
I prayed that tis month i was pregnant, but today killed that dream. Now I have to start some sort of medication ( I was too emotional to pay attention) and I have to have CD3 labs done monday. I also have to have a HSG and pelvic ultrasound to see the damage that is there.
I am ... I don't have any words for what i am.
Anyone have any advice or words of wisdom?
BTW... I am 25, married, financially stable, 1 child. Thats just for all the mean people
2007-03-10 13:12:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Sorry hun. I wish I could give you my fertility. I am pregnant with my fourth baby right now and I get pregnant the very second we think about having it.....
I could probably go on to have 15 kids if I really wanted to.
Sorry you have so many problems, but you never know.
Just try to let your body heal naturally and stay off infertility increasing drugs and unnatural things done to your reproductive organs.
Keep taking lots of vitamins, exercise and keep a healthy and fun sex life....
A positive attitude goes a long way.
2007-03-10 14:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't have advice to offer but I want to let you know that my thoughts are with you. Maybe to give hope to the subject I have a friend who had/has endometriosis. She has two children. Plus you have one child so that shows you are capable of conceiving so that is good. I hope all your tests go well. Good luck in ttc. Have fun while trying ;)
2007-03-10 13:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by krispeds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAY! I had been told for years that i could not get pregnant. and here i am. nothing but prayer. when it is supposed to happen it will happen.
Just hold tight to your little one. Be happy that you were blessed with him. Some people dont make it that far. I found that it took for me to really relax before i got pregnant. i was so stressed and i know that had to have had an effect on me.
Keep your head up... and keep having sex (and make it fun. not just that boring 'i want a baby sex' i mean mind shattering orgasming so hard your leg is still shaking for days sex ) . Dont let them tell you no. Keep it in your faith and in your dreams. once you give up, you let them win. Dont let that happen to you!
2007-03-10 13:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kynnie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in reality 500? ok, i understand that sounds advise, yet truly! That lady contained in the poster baby for Welfare. i visit't take it anymore. i'm so mad, hi! Social facilities? supply those babies a reliable living house with father and mom which could manage to pay for to strengthen them and desire them. That gold digger is a leech! i could in no way condone threats both. i'm only offended.
2016-12-01 19:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoption--in the long run, it's cheaper than trying to conceive through artificial means and you'll be providing a home and a loving family to a child in need.
Good luck.
2007-03-10 13:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by shoujomaniac101 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋