My chance to be a Grandfather down the tubes once again.
2007-03-10 13:05:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It sucks, doesn't it?
Actually, approximately 20 - 40% of all pregnancies end in miscarriage. Usually it has nothing to do with the health of the mother (or father) or anything that the mother did or didn't do - the fetus simply wasn't viable, so the mother's body ended the pregnancy. When you think about all the things that must go right to bring a baby into this world, it's a wonder any babies are born at all!
2007-03-10 13:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by kris 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's rude! It's hard enough to lose a baby due to a miscarriage but when the person that could have been the grandfather says,"My chance to be a grandfather down the tubes once again," to the world who looks on the internet is just plain old jerk behaviour! There are many reasons there are miscarriages and one of them could be depression so maybe you should actually support your daughter or daughter in law!
2007-03-10 13:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by maysimay2006 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It could be caused by an abnormal shaped uterus. I was born with a bicornuate uterus and have been able to carry four healthy babies only so far before one by one they died. I am sorry for your grief. My suggestion to you is to not say anything like the above to you daughter or daughter in law. The fault doesn't lie with her. Imagine the pain you feel and times that by at least 10 and you may come close to how she feels. The doctors wouldn't check out the cause of my miscarriage until my thrid miscarriage. I ended up pregnant again with the same results. The good news is that if it is a problem like mine she can have it fixed with surgery. Its fairly costly but most women are able to go on and have babies afterward. Most insurance doesn't cover the surgery because it is classified as an infertility surgery. Certain states are required by law to offer infertility coverage and I hope she is one of them IF she indeed has a problem. I'm not so lucky.
You can do a search and there are a lot more abnormallies than just the one I have--some are more severe than others but miscarriages are more common than most people think. Be supportive and don't point fingers.
2007-03-10 18:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Keri D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You're more concerned with being a grandfather than the miscarriage of your daughter/daughter in law's baby?
Miscarriages can happen for many reasons. My sister had two in less than 8 months and she wasn't doing anything out of the ordinary. When they decided not to try again, 8 months later they had a wonderful baby boy....he was a month pre-mature.
Some women just aren't 'made' to be able to carry a baby to full term. It isn't something they have any control of. It's not something they are doing wrong.
Give the person that had the miscarriage support and not put them down thinking it was their fault.
2007-03-10 13:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by whatchagonnado 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't deserve to be a grandfather if your reply is "My chance to be a Grandfather down the tubes once again." Maybe you should stop being so selfish and try to help your daughter or daughter in law with the love and support she needs and is obviously not getting.
She will be feeling she has caused this, and doesn't need you feeling sorry for yourself becasue of the title you have lost "grandfather".
What about what she has lost, and the trauma she is experiencing.
She will feel as though she has failed, her baby, herself and her family.
You need to step up and be the father/father in law that I think you can be and giver her your unconditional support!
2007-03-10 13:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
there is particularly some motives cat have miscarriages the main significant one is whilst they're pregnant they nonetheless tend to furnish off a heady scent as though they're in warmth and adult males cats see that as a pass sign and consider out to *undesirable be conscious* them. some are so tough in preserving them nonetheless they reason the kittens to die. whilst she gets up from sitting down examine to work out if there is any blood, examine for some days. If she is bleeding for extra then 2 days take her to a vet, if she isn't theres a danger a male cat tried to get her and led to a miscarriage or she replaced into to tough on herself whilst she replaced into roaming.
2016-11-24 19:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c males can't
that's so shallow
2007-03-10 13:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋