So I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year...
I love him.. really I do, but he is such a jerk to me...
I hardly see him...mostly because he dorms at his college, and my college is about 45 minutes away...and our schedules don't cross paths.
Anyway.. I haven't seen him in about 3 weeks... but before that I went out there 3 weekends in a row.
I have to take public transportation, because I can't afford a car at the moment, so to get to him, I have to take 3 different buses. There and back.
I ask him repeatedly "Hunnie, can you please come out here this weekend?" And he says "No...I don't want to."
So today I asked him to again..and he decided to go fishing with his uncle (whom he hates btw) and ignore me...
This all has been going on since I moved back to NY in September..
He never wants to come see me. He came out to see me 2 times since September...I went there about 15..
Is that fair??
I want to end it, but I don't know how...I'm scared
Help!
2007-03-10 13:01:21 · 14 answers · asked by Mimi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you think he could have another girl...? Thats what scares me...I have been cheated on before...and I don't think i can deal with it again..It's the worst
2007-03-10 13:15:58 · update #1
thats so messed up. your the girl and he's suppose to have the balls to come there and see you. Have you ever thought that he might not taking your relationship seriously anymore? I mean if he wants to see you he will find a way to get there even if its just 5 minutes. And he will come out there any chance he gets. But he's being an asshole and unfair.
I have a long distance relationship too and my boyfriend come out here twice a week at least to see me and everytime i ask him to come see me he do it so I think your boyfriend is being unfair for that. Talk to him about it and ask him why he dont wanna come see you. Maybe there's a story behind that.
good luck!
2007-03-10 13:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by honeyy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-18 01:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Pick up phone
2. Dial
3. Repeat after me "good bye loser"
4. Move on and have a nice life
2007-03-10 13:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie you deserve much better! I know you are scared but think about the fact that you will eventually find someone else who will make efforts and give you what you deserve. Be strong girl!!
2007-03-10 13:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by amandamc32183 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him and say things I love You but I need to move on let still be friends
2007-03-10 13:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by Daniela E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you got yourself into this "problem" get yourself out of it. Do you think its fair? Why are you scared? You have to grow up sometime, now's as good as time as any. Go for it!!!!
2007-03-10 13:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How can you love someone who is like that? It should make you angry that he doesn't care about you the way you care about him. This isn't a relationship, it's one-sided. Think about what's best for you, sweetie.
2007-03-10 13:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by VillageGirl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He does not love you the way he used to honey. If you want it to end, you have to tell him straightaway. You really don't want to waste your time on him. You're still young, you shouldn't be sticking to him if he doesn't want you anymore.
2007-03-10 13:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
the easiest way i can see for you to end this is just stop going to see him. concentrate on other areas of your life which make you happy and that will probably alleviate your fear. good luck
2007-03-10 13:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by simplyme 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
obviously he doesnt care or he would take initiative to visit just tell him the truth sounds like hat is what he wants anyways
2007-03-10 13:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by undercovernudist 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋