my friend just died, i feel terrible, can you comfort me?

Answer 1

What might help you is to try thinking about all the good times you had together, that way you don't forget but yet you don't feel so bad. My cat just died and I really had a hard time getting over him, so I know how you feel but I know you might feel way worse because your best freind was a real person. I takes time to get over the pain and becomes less painfull.
Hang in there and don't forget your friend may have wanted you to feel better and move on.
GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 2

I too have lost some great friends and mentors in my life, It is perfectly o.k. to grieve, and too cry even. I found that First taking some quiet "ALONE TIME" to just let it go man, and then reflecting on our friendship and talking to others about the great times we had and the troubles we sometimes got into that ended hilariously really eased the pain. I miss them, but know that they do not have to struggle with the wicked ways of this world as they are today, and I rejoice that they are at peace. Hold Fast to the Love and comradory that you shared, in this mannor, they are still with you my Friend. I will pray for peace and great blessings of many fond memories for you.

Answer 3

I'm very sorry. Death is so final in one way, but while you are alive that person still lives.

There is a chatroom for grieving GROWW - try that. It is very comforting. It is by and for people who are grieving. And I found it very helpful when I was grieving.

All the best to you. May you find peace and comfort.

Answer 4

I am sorry for your loss. You didn't give us much information so other than saying I'm sorry and that you should cherish your memories with him/her, again, there isn't much we can say to comfort you.

Everyone grieves in their own way of course and it's now how much one grieves or how long one grieves it's just the grief itself. There are five stages of grieving and some will go thru them quite quickly others may take more time.

Again I'm sorry for your loss. God bless.

Answer 5

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry. Death is so unpredictable and unfair. I'm very sorry. I know what you're going through. Remember the good times you've had with them.
Trust me, though it may not seem that way, it'll get easier as time goes on.
But I know that right now, you're probably in shock. It's very difficult to lose someone you were close to.
I hope you feel better.

Answer 6

My condelences we all deal with death in our own way. I keep it in & bury it which isnt good & has gotten me in lots of trouble from people thinking I am not caring enough or cold hearted. Like when my an ex committed suicide her family felt that I did not show enough emotions for the amount of feelings she & I had for each other even then after she hurt me the way that she did. There's nothing I wouldnt have done for her but still it wasnt my way of grieve to cry or show emotion.... trying to do so now literally makes me shake & studder... :( I wasnt ment to open up :). I rule!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Firstly, we dont know how to comfort you, cause we dont know much about you.
Secondly, its perfectly normal to feel terrible. Everyone will endure this pain someday, but yours apparently was sooner than peple.
Thirdly, why do you feel terrible. where you at the scene where he died and you weren't able to save him?
Forthly, please add more details. phycologists are not able to know how to repond to your question if we dont know the tone, facial look, and details of you.
Fifthly, All humans die. You will to. Live on. The future is full of surprises. It always is.

Answer 8

I'm so sorry for your loss. Try to think of your friend in a better place where there is no pain, no sadness, no suffering, and be happy for him/her. I found it much easier to deal with my daughter's death once I believed that she was in heaven, where she'd never have to hurt like we do here.
It does get easier and better as time goes on, so rest assured that you won't feel this bad forever.

Answer 9

I am so sorry for what has happened even though I don't know you but still losing some one close to you is very hard so i hope you get over it so you don't go in to depression so yes you must grieve so you can continue with your life. Still I'm so sorry for your loss once again Bye.

hey this is England gal 1 just want to say i know what it is like to loss a friend it is very hard. it took me about a week to get over but i got all my grieving out in that week. you will be in my prayers. remember your friend is still in your heart mind and is with you in spirit. sorry for your lost.

Answer 10

No I can't. Mere words on a computer screen are just that. I do not know you. You do not know me. Right now you need to be around the people who do know you and who knew your friend. They are the only people on earth who can comfort you right now.

God bless.