i took my ex back! and now i think that was a big stuip choice cause hes acting like i cant have life and i always spend time with him and i never get to spend time with my friend and i miss them alot!! and i dk what to do!! i admit i broke up with him yesturday and we started to go out again today!! its like i dk anymore cause i love him but hes controling alot and when i tell him im going to hang out wit my friends he gets mad cause he thinks im going to hangout wit m friend that is a boy!!!but like i dont know waht to do?
2007-03-10 12:48:30 · 4 answers · asked by kea p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like he has contol issues, on a powertrip, you are nursing his big ego. Maybe you should have stayed away for more than a day to contemplate about your relationship with him. My ex was very controlling as well. I will never go back to him though. I used to stay away for up to a year, until his BS promises to change his ways, which he never did anyways.
There will be a time, when you will get so fed up with his ways that you will snap and just realize...what the heck am I doing in this relationship? Then you will leave and become a stronger person for it.
2007-03-10 12:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to have a guy tell you what you can and can't do. You should both still be able to see your friends. If he can't trust you that's not a good sign. I say take a break for awhile and see how you really feel about it. Take a good look at what you get out of the relationship. Does it make you happy or anxious and unhappy? Don't stay with a jealous, control freak.
2007-03-10 20:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful in this situation...I had a friend in the same spot you are in, very controlling girlfriend in this case, she ended up losing contact with ALL her friends, just to keep the one who 'loved' her happy.
If he won't give you your free time then I say move on. You deserve to have your friends just like he does his. And if he says he doesn't need any friends, just you, then run away very quickly, and never look back, you are headed for trouble.
2007-03-10 20:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone because you have a life too and part of your life includes your friends. a guy should be happy that you have a life outside of him and plus spending to much time together will eventually lead to you needing your friends seriously without him.
2007-03-10 20:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by kaybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋