My bf of almost 4 yrs decided to bring up the subject of marriage in the middle of a movie?He asked me to marry him during the movie 300!Granted i like violent movies but why could he not wait till after the movie?
2007-03-10 12:37:21 · 7 answers · asked by Laura W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The exact proposal was i love and since you put up with all my bull **** and i put up with yours i want to spend the rest of my life with you!How was that supposed to be romantic!
2007-03-10 12:44:47 · update #1
P.S he is a great guy in every other way for the most part and i love him.
2007-03-10 12:48:42 · update #2
Oh I feel your pain! My husband proposed in a god awful horrible way...also after dating for 4 years. I had the flu, his parents were there and so he freaked out and didn't really say anything and when his mom asked if he was going to ask I told her we'd already discussed it and the ring was a formality (trying to make him feel better) and she said and I quote "it doesn't count if he was drunk at the time"! So you see your proposal could've been worse! lol Seriously if you've been together that long, he's great, you love him and want to marry him then don't get upset over not having the romantic proposal. And trust me on this...he will realize how dumb he was for doing it that way and it will be something that will work in your favor later on b/c he'll try and make it up to you repeatedly.
2007-03-10 13:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy that is a strange time to ask you to marry him, I have no idea why. I would hope that he just decided he couldn't wait anymore...but if you and he are happy, he is romantic and treats you like the special lady you are then it doesn't matter. If he doesn't do those things for you and you want them, then once again the movie is not important and those issues are.
That proposal does not sound romantic at alll....rather just him settling for what works out and hoping you will do the same. To me true love is definitely not just finding someone who puts up with bs...I would want to know someone not only loves me but says why out loud. It sounds like that is important to you...I'd tell him before you marry anyone you want to hear how he feels about you other than "putting up with his bs". If you don't hear it now, you definitely won't after you get married.
2007-03-10 20:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by mark63049 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow maybe he was planning it earlier and lost his momentum and it came back in the middle of the movie...Sorry but at least he asked...Maybe he just wanted to ask you and thought he would lose it again if he waited to long...
Congrats~
2007-03-10 20:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by **Mishelly** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's bad. If you want to marry him, then say yes. You'd think he'd wait till you're at least allowed to talk.
2007-03-10 22:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's where he felt most comfortable asking you u
2007-03-10 21:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by cra r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he most likely was thinking about it all day , and had to say it .. just think , at least it was at a memorable moment ..
2007-03-10 20:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wanted to suprise you
you didn't expect him to ask you that way suprise!!!
2007-03-10 20:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by Rox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋