This is a question that I feel like it need to be answered.Please do not tell me that it is because he loves you try me with something else that might just make sense.I went threw this with my stepdad and mom I do not play that **** to this day about a man beating on a girl so help me to understand this concept on this.
2007-03-10 12:22:09 · 6 answers · asked by weeping eyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is not the right one for you. That is domestic violence, that no one should put up with at all. A man is to love, protect, and care for his wife, and family. He is to nurture the wife, and family. Build them up, not tear them down. The cops should be called whenever there is a DV matter. For the person that did the hitting, they go to jail (at least in some states) for a 24 hr. cooling off period. At that time of a break, the woman should get out, go to court, get a restraining order on the man, and get him served with his copy (it goes into effect the moment he received his copy by being served his copy either by police dept. or someone else 18 or older) not the victim. No man has the right to hit a woman. Just as no woman has the right to hit a man. Domestic violence, unfortunately, can sometimes be a two way street. I am sorry you have had to experience this in your early years. Or even, at all. I wish you the best. Take care.
2007-03-10 12:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't specify why and what the reasons. nevertheless beating is never been good in a healthy relationship. I dont understand what frame of mind he have. Have you tried to talk your mother? Wish your mother will wake up soon. This will be a perenial problem and it will like be a cycle in your life. Your mother should solve this problem, otherwise she will suffer till the end.
2007-03-10 12:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by pink_blossom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No man or woman would ever beat on each other if they loved one another im sorry. When people do this they have a problem and need help or just get away
2007-03-10 12:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by jyb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't understand how a woman feels.When you have been with someone so long, you have kids with this person.You depend on this person.Perhaps this person supports you and your kids..It is not so easy to leave a person you have been with for a long time.The world is a scary place and with kids its even scarier.Even if he does beat you he is SOMEONE to you.Its hard to explain.You have a past with this person.You are connected.For a woman with kids to start over is a horrifying thought.Yes, there are shelters,but to leave your HOME for one of those places is not easy. Remember he may beat you but you still have a home and its hard to leave your home.Plus add the fact you might still love him,praying for him to change,perhaps he keeps telling you he'll change.After all is said and done it is very hard to leave someone you loved or still love and to leave your home.
2007-03-10 12:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by little3nikki 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he beats you than he's not the right one for you. Get out. Regardless of how you were treated by your parents, it is not ok for someone to treat you that way.
2007-03-10 14:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by K S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is really the right one for you he would not beat you or do anything to intentionally hurt you. Love is kind, it is not hurtful.
2007-03-10 12:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋