I have an Orgi??
2007-03-10 12:07:07 · 11 answers · asked by Bongo! 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
most of the time why women don't have orgasms is because they aren't participating or focus as much as they should be when they are having sex. when you have sex, you should focus on what you are doing and about how much you love your partner. you should also help out your partner by getting into it a little more. if you are just letting your partner do everything, you should join in, and will help you and your partner. you should also rub your clitorous or tell your partner to do it for you. hope this really helps.
2007-03-10 12:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hahahah!!! Do you mean orgy or orgasm. There is a very significant difference between the two. If you mean orgy(sex with more than 2 people)I think you need to talk to your partner about that. If you mean orgasm, try getting a little oral pleasure and/or pleasuring yourself. If that doesn't work, you're broken and need to be sent back to the factory for a recall.
2007-03-10 20:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by dracenalady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,i am unsure as to what your question is.If you are asking us why you cannot have an "orgy"(a sexual encounter involving many people) then i cannot answer that for you.You and your partner need to discuss this,and decide if it is something you both are willing to try.Some are uncomfortable with this some are not.You will have to consult with your partner,none of us on yahoo answers can help you there.
If you are speaking of an "orgasm"(an explosive discharge of neuromuscular tensions at the height of sexual arousal that is usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen in the male and by vaginal contractions in the female) then,maybe someone can help you there.Often times,females concentrate too hard on having orgasms rather than enjoying themselves.When you concentrate on it,it isnt going to happen as your stressing yourself out.You need to be relaxed and enjoy the moment.Experiment with your own body,and find out what feels good to you,or what works you to an orgasm.The guy may be doing it wrong,and you exploring your body and showing him what you enjoy and speaking about what you do not can help you achieve an orgasm.If all else fails,you may want to consult with a sex therapist.They specialize in helping couples solve problems with their sex life and may just have the answer for you.More than likely,your the only one who can answer this particular question.Good luck hun and have a good night.
2007-03-10 20:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO! I think you mean "orgasm"! First, I'd shave off any pubic hair, so it doesn't get in the way of pleasurable sensations. Then, just try your hardest to focus and participate in the sex, and enjoy yourself. I'd understand if you have trouble focusing, because my mind can be in a million different places at the same time while I'm trying to focus on one place at one time!
2007-03-10 23:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetness24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the guy put his finger in ur vergina and put in in and out like masterbating then ask him to lick it for a while and and soon u would orgi lol
2007-03-10 21:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Joben Behanan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
many women cant orgasm from just sex alone, the best way is to probably find a position where he can do his thing and you make it happen for yourself, you cant go wrong if you know how to get youself off
2007-03-11 04:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by carrol_87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh?
if you mean
orgasm------ it's cuz you don't focus on whats happening try to open your eyes and see what happening feel what your doing you know just focus
orgi-------ahhhhhhhhh go to a porn film shooting they will take you lol
2007-03-10 20:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by THE EGYPTIAN 1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Eh...I have the same problem. Sometimes I have orgasms and sometimes I dont...Tell your man to stimulate your clitoris during foreplay...or you can stimulate it yourself while you man is thrusting..it works best in the doggystyle position.
Hope this helps!
2007-03-10 20:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by MzNikkiLC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you would be surprised how many don't, have you tried different positions? My wife doesn't *** very often during sex but I make sure she gets one with oral.
2007-03-10 21:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jason Bourne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALOT OF WOMEN ARE DOING IT TOO FAST ..ALSO YOU COULD HAVE A ORGASM THROUGH A GUY GIVING YOU ORAL SEX ..THAT IS THE ONLY WAY MY COUSIN HAS A ORGASM!
2007-03-10 20:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by Swm 39 4 Younger Swf Forever 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋