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What do you think about engagement as a young teen (like 15 or 16)?

2007-03-10 12:06:32 · 11 answers · asked by bubls 1 in Beauty & Style Other - Beauty & Style

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its stupid. dont do it u'll probably end up getting a divorce and doin stupid things.

i suggest u dont. plz

2007-03-10 13:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by HL 4 · 0 0

This is what you get when you get engaged at that age.
I am assuming you are having sex, so its a matter of time before you are raising kids, shopping at the good will store, going down to the department of Social Services for Food stamps. You will be taken care of by Medicaid for doctor services, waiting in there with a bunch of illegals.
Either living in a Trailer or an Apt where there are drug addicts.
Sounds tempting doesnt it. Oh, it only gets better.
You grow old, fat and ugly due to no money to any better.
Or you could finish school, wait until you get some kind of degree so you can drive nice cars, buy any thing you want.
But I dont want to stop a love sick teen from doing what your heart/lust wants.

Good Luck because you are going to need it.

2007-03-10 12:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Grogan 5 · 0 0

My advice would be get engaged at 15 or 16 then if your still with each other through college, being faithful, through finding that 1st good job, paying off your college loans, paying all your bills, buying your 1st house able to look after plants, a dog and the rest and you can still look each other in the eye, then get married. It will save you years of worry, guilt and money...trust me!

2007-03-10 12:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by kiss_me_cold_007 2 · 0 0

It depends on the culture you come from. I personally think that it is ridiculous to be engaged at such a young age. Live life...you will have plenty of time to get married and have a family.

2007-03-10 12:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by L.M.L 6 · 0 0

while i became sixteen, I have been given a promise ring to be engaged. I dated a boy for 2 years. considering that then we've run into problems, i became 17, i wanted to challenge out-I knew that I had no different journey with everyone or something. not that I went out searching for different adult males, even though it got here approximately besides. i've got had countless boyfriends tell me that they opt to get hitched with me and returned and returned returned i discover that the relationships in basic terms are not suitable. Alot of that factor I spent studying who i became and what i'm able to. i won't be able to think of having the comparable attitude as I did while i became sixteen, which became basically 4 short years in the past. i'm a thoroughly distinctive individual. i'm now in an surprising dating, the place we do in actuality robotically communicate approximately marriage. we are at a think approximately our lives the place we are the two graduated or midway by using college and we can realistically think of of those issues. i don't mean to deter you. My father and mom have been severe college sweethearts and that they have got been married 2 an prolonged time now. in basic terms comprehend that it's not for absolutely everyone. think of approximately how lots maturing you have performed considering which you have been twelve. think of approximately how lots extra you would be maturing once you're able to start up making super judgements on your existence. He nor you're able to be thoroughly heartbroken in case you even go so some distance as to interrupt it off. that's a studying curve, if issues are meant to be-you will finally end up at the same time. in basic terms bear in mind that while you're at unhappy with little issues that are certainly "super" issues now-ought to you think of being sure at the same time and understanding you wasted years of the top years of your existence which you're so directly nearing? good success, yet i could loosen up a sprint-existence throws ya speedy ones.

2016-10-01 22:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by bergman 4 · 0 0

To be engaged and married you need to be mature enough, and young girls of that age are still too little to have that kind of maturity and life experience.

2007-03-10 12:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by yafit k 4 · 0 0

well if you culture is like that then no its not bad but if you arnt in a specific culture like that then that is just unthinkable? do you really want to be with that special person for that long? it might not work out.... have you watched that show engaged and underage on MTV?

Hope this helps =]

2007-03-10 12:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

there is no way I would have gotten engaged at that young age
I wanted my freedom from anyone and I had a super time in my early 20's

2007-03-10 12:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by lovednotspoiled 5 · 0 0

I THINK THAT IS FREAKIN CRAZY. THERE ARE A HOLE LOT OF MORE GUYS AND GIRLZ OUT THERE. AND NOW WHO EVER THIS IS ...IS GETTING THEM SELVES TIED UP IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT SEEING ALL THE FINE MEN OR WOMEN

2007-03-10 12:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by *HARTS BABE* 1 · 0 0

you should enjoy going to parties and clubs first and after you get tired then get married

2007-03-10 12:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by hello 2 · 0 0

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