I have a best friend (male) who is straight with a gf. We do a lot of things together especially swimming. He always talks about the movie Brokeback Mountain...and hints how goodlooking i am. We have never talked about "bisexual" issues before. Is he trying to inadvertly trying to seduce me into having something with him? Or am i not open minded enough to accept all issues and just go ..where ever that leads me to?
2007-03-10 12:05:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Communication is the key my friend. Ask.
2007-03-10 12:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would be better to stay away from him. You claim you have not talked about bisexual issues so I don't think it is something you are comfortable with. Because you are not open minded in that way, Brokeback probably does not appeal to you, especially since you are asking this question. As far as seduction, he can only seduce you if you allow that to happen. If you are married then you should think of your wife and the pain you will put her through before making a rash decision.
2007-03-10 12:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The action picture resembles a real mirrored image of the life we live in. in spite of the reality that some adult adult males could locate it something to make noise approximately, if fact be told Brokeback Mountain isn't merely a action picture...this is genuine life. It happens.
2016-12-14 15:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by ricaurte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're even considering having an affair (whether with a woman or another man), you're not "happily married." Marriage is about taking an oath not to cheat and to honor your spouse. And being "open-minded" doesn't mean having sex with whatever comes your way.
If your friend is testing the waters with you or trying to seduce you, he's not a friend. He's someone who doesn't respect you, your vows nor your wife.
2007-03-10 12:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by robot_hooker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. I think he isn't straight. If he is obsessed with the movie and tells you all the time how goodlooking you are, well then, there is an issue! Obviously, you have to see where you stand on the issue, too. Who knows...the only way to figure it out is to confront him.
2007-03-10 12:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a bi - male. He is gay, coming out of the closet and wants to take you with him. This has nothing to do with being open minded. If you are not gay be man enough to admit it and stand up for it.
2007-03-10 12:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by j.swaney 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe he is really trying to seduce you and you are confused about what to do.
I don't think anyone can help you in this. You have to find out what you really want for your life, it's only up to you.
2007-03-10 12:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by Lilly26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to get you in the sack he sounds like he maybe gay and is trying to convince you into having a fling with him can't you tell by the statements he has made to you..
2007-03-10 12:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing games with this guy. If you're not interested, tell him it's not your style. If you are interested, have the decency to free your wife. Anything else is dishonest.
2007-03-10 12:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay. That's obvious.
If you were happily married, you wouldn't even be thinking about this.
You are NOT happily married.
That is the crux of the problem.
2007-03-10 12:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by joe m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋