i have a fair few friends,dated a couple of women,kept myself out of trouble,i just dont think its helping me at all,there's no feelings with my surroundings,for the first time in my life i have no one to turn to for companionship,its me versus the world.what would be the next course of action to take in order to get my life back to meaninful
2007-03-10 12:00:46 · 10 answers · asked by prettypete 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think your at the beginnigs of depression- no seriously I am not being funny- this is what happens to me before I get really severarly depressed- I start to feel very alone, very useless and down about life and then I feel threatened by the future and cant cope.
If you felel like this and cant cope or you get worse will you please see a doctor or call samaritans?
I think you fel alone but are not aware of those around you- its hard to believe anyone is there as everyone takes everyone else for granted and friendships dont get a chance to really develop. People get stuck and no one knows because people are not in touch with one another. Its not that people dont care, its that they dont show it.
Try building some more friendships by joining more groups, societies, or chat rooms, also try developing the friendships you do have- think of places you want to go/things you want to see and invite people to go along with you.
You may find yourself plowing in the effort at firsr, but eventually- and please be patient here- people will start to add their input.
2007-03-10 12:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I've never been a socialite, only ever had the occassional basic friend, no real tight relationships. Romance? I can go years. That said, people have this false illusion of me that I'm very sociable. I'm not sure how that came out. But I too am very much alone. I'd give you advice, but I really need to take some myself.
2007-03-10 12:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by girlsincamelot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to get out and meet people like someone you can date on a regular basis and then as your relationship progresses yu will be able to confide in them and share things with.
2007-03-10 12:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are natural loners, i'm one myself but i'm happy(ish). when you have no-one to rely on the only person you can fall back on is yourself. i've had so-called friends drive past me when i'm walking home in the pissing rain toot the horn and shout "all right wanker". but hey thats life. you need to find her/him and make life as comfertable as possible with the one you love. its the difference between rocking back and foward in the chair clutching your head and getting up early because you dont want to waste a single day.
2007-03-10 20:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup..I know exactly how you feel . I feel alone and abandoned by all my friends and every girl that I had feelings for rejects me like I'm not good enough for them...It's like what the hell is the point of living ?
If you need to talk man contact me ..we can talk.
2007-03-10 12:06:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't everyone experience this kind of feeling at different times in their lives? Life is never constant. So, what would make your life more meaningful?
2007-03-11 08:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Travel.
See what the world has to offer and let the companion find you.
2007-03-10 12:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try joining a health club
2007-03-10 12:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep no freinds no familoy just my daughter and hubbgy ye iam an outcast
2007-03-10 20:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im in the same situation... if you wanna talk email me or im
Gardenia33_99@yahoo.com
2007-03-13 07:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by gardenia33_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋