How do i know if my boyfriend is cheating on me?

Answer 1

the only way to really know know is for him to tell you or for others to tell you.

some SIGNS:

has he been changing recently? does he have unexplained absences? has he been acting differently or spending more time working out or more time on his looks than before? does he not spend as much time with u or compliment you as much? does he try to buy you things to keep you occupied when he makes a mistake? does he avoid eye contact when you try to talk to him? has he been spending a lot of time with 'friends' or with other people that you don't know of?

again, those are just some questions to ponder about--it doesn't mean necessarily that he is cheating on you.

Answer 2

I think I answered a question like this one before but here goes.......First, do you have a reason to suspect he is cheating? Or are you just paranoid? Think about that a while and then if you feel you have a reason, confront him. But don't say, I think you are (have) cheated on me. Just say, I am feeling a little insecure in our relationship and I want to know what your feelings are about us having a monogamous relationship. If he says he wants to see other people, then probably he is cheating or wants to. If he says he doesn't want either of you to be with anyone else, then let it go. You will ruin your relationship by wondering all the time.

Answer 3

Unaccounted for credit card charges (especially hotel bills), phone calls; acting suspicious while on the computer (emailing someone, chatrooms, dating services ???); avoiding eye contact/acting distant; unexplained clothes changes/change in clothing style; perfume not yours; greeting cards/love letters/poems in the house obviously not intended for you; the smell of flowers in his car and you never got any; him acting chipper for days on end when you guys have not had sex; saying he has to work late or has to go to work early because the "boss" needs him to pitch in for some other problem worker's inefficiency; always being tired and not wanting sex (some of this being tired could actually be work or stress, but not all of it); saying that he and the guys want a men's night out on weekends; sudden visits to family when you know they're not that close or do not have any major crises or celebrations going on; sneaky behavior like saying he has to go to the supermarket for that deodorant he forgot to tell you about the last time you went shopping for him; leaving the house in the middle of the night with no explanation; frequently hanging up on a phone call without explanation or due to a "wrong number"; slips of the tongue where he comments about a movie that he could have only seen with someone else; the list goes on and on - been on the receiving end myself.

Answer 4

By a couple of things. First listen to what your instincts are telling you. Listen and watch to see what his behavior is. Has he been actind deceptive, being secretive, spending time other places and you can't get ahold of him during this time, etc. Most of all you can go by his past and has he cheated before, is there someone in specific you are thinking of, did a certain situation happen? And talk to him. When you do talk to him talk calmly and don't be accusatory, don't talk to him by saying You did this You You You. Keep it about what you feel, say I feel that.....

Answer 5

If he doesn't tell you if everything....and if he is cheating on you he wouldn't spend that much time with you....Good Luck!

Answer 6

if you think that he is cheating on you, he might be or else you wouldn't have those feelings

Answer 7

1. he doesn't let you answer or see his cell phone.
2. he doesn't want you looking over his shoulder on the computer
3. he is unaccounted for sometimes...don't know where he is..and gets defensive about it

Answer 8

The sure fire way is to go with your gut it's always right. By the way he will tell you through his body language if you ask him outright.

Answer 9

There is a saying that if you feel it than he probably is. It works both ways actually.

Answer 10

Try asking him. Be more concerned with his reaction rather than his answer.