2007-03-10 11:16:26 · 12 answers · asked by rocky w 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
recovery depends on her level of remorse and willingness to admit her deeds hurt u, and wanting forgiveness. trust can be had again, but requires work, and faith. u can forgive it, no it will ever quite be forgotten, but the pain does ease up and life eventually returns to normal, but u have to be forgiving, and try to focus on the marriage and not the deed, most will depend on her attitude, and her accountability.
2007-03-10 11:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can. Whether or not your marriage does depends on a few things, though.
For her - Is she truly remorseful? Is she willing to take the time and effort to reassure you that this will not happen again? Is she willing to deal with your distrust for now, and willing to give up some privacy to reassure you that she's not cheating again? Is she willing to do whatever necessary to rebuild the trust she destroyed?
For you - Are you willing to take a look at WHY she cheated, and take the steps necessary to repair whatever was broken in your marriage in the first place? Are you willing to let this go - meaning no throwing it in her face for the next 20 years?
It's always possible - but both partners have to be willing to work really hard to rebuild a marriage after adultery.
2007-03-10 20:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by ~StepfordWife~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi my name is christina iam 22 iwas 19 wen git marry then ggood trun to bad he breaks his vows i have been divoce 4
2years nwo and yes you can recover how by the love of jesus christ he is the one the help me throw hard times and the help
of my chruch family too . i would be blue all the time if you aver need to talk iam here write me at chrstyphipps@yahoo.com ill try to help you recover for ther is some one out ther that cares.
2007-03-10 19:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by christy p 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you have to really want to recover first of all. Is this something you want?
do you find yourself really in love with this person and want to forgive?
You won't be able to recover or forgive unless you really want to in your heart. If you don't then dont' waste your time and move on
2007-03-10 19:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Iluvhim 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can recover but it wil always be in the back of my head that shell do it again but our vow was that we respect each other
2007-03-10 19:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can but it takes alot of time and alot of communication. The best way to help you through it is to attend some sort of counceling together.
2007-03-10 19:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure about the recovery.My ex cheated and it still bothers me sometimes.It's been years and I still have trust issues.
2007-03-10 23:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it takes a LONG time.
2007-03-10 19:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by dubi4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. It might take time to develop trust again. but it's possible..
2007-03-10 19:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with God all things are possible
2007-03-10 19:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋