2007-03-10 10:58:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think it's cheating, as long as you don't act on it! Staying interested keeps you vital...just make sure your fantasies lead you back home!
2007-03-10 11:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're in a committed relationship, why would you even be fantasizing about someone else?! If you have to ask, then yes, it is cheating.
Think about it. Would you want your partner to be fantasizing about some other guy? I don't think so. And for those of you who say that this is normal, well, no, it's not. Fantasizing and thinking are two different things altogether. If you are having sexual fantasies about another woman, then you are cheating on the person you say you are committed to.
2007-03-10 11:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by ptcruisinflutterby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends...
I don't think it's cheating when you notice a good looking guy (or girl) walk by and your mind wanders for a minute... (no need to explain where your mind wandered to)
But if you're constantly fantasizing about a person, either while you're in bed with your spouse, or just on a regular basis, you're probably approaching that fine line... You need to look at what's missing in your relationship, and what you can do to fix it. You may not be physically cheating, but your mind is getting too close to it - taking action isn't that far away.
Fantasizing can be healthy and beneficial to a marriage, if used appropriately!!!
2007-03-10 11:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by ~StepfordWife~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, in time everyone has fantasies of other people, married or not. Cheating is when you act on what you want, or create a relationship with them...but fantasies are nothing to worry about. There are two kinds of people out there...the ones who in a relationship or not fantasize about others, and different acts...and those who lie about having them because they think it makes them "cheaters".
2007-03-10 11:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by mark63049 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is. If you honestly love someone how can you possibly think of doing anything else with anyone else? I think cheating is defined as not the sexual act with another person but either wanting to/thinking about/fantasizing. I don't think this way because of insecurities but because that isn't love if you want to or wish to have sex with another person. Everyone throws the word "love" around but don't know what it means or if they mean it therefore it's not used in the right way. Love is about passion and honesty and comfort and so many other things which makes it hard to explain. Please don't tell your gf/bf that you love them when you fantasize about others. Don't ruin love for everyone else in this world.
2007-03-10 11:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope. Women are liars. You know they fantasize about the Hollywood types like Brad Pitt, Clooney, Cruise.
But here they are saying its cheating. BS totally.
2007-03-10 13:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as you in basic terms fantasize approximately different adult males you don´t additionally be attentive to, i think of is okay. however the fantasies are your way of attempting to experience a void you're patently feeling. maybe you need to talk along with your husband a manner he ought to spend some extra time with you somewhat of in basic terms on the weekends? it type of feels to me as in case you have a factor-time marriage and because it began to situation you are trying to guard it if he gained´t, e.g. meet new people, make new friends, something which will help you top off your week extra. stable success!
2016-11-24 19:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by ximenez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not as long as you dont act on those fantasies. I am sure alot of people fantasize about other people all the time. Just keep it at that.
2007-03-10 11:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so.Everyone fantasizes about other people.As long as you are doing nothing to act on the fantasies, no harm is done.
However, if you find yourself planning on acting on the fantasies or getting too close to the other person, then it does start to become a betrayl and should be stopped.
2007-03-10 11:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
in a way i think it is,but on the other hand you have to be creative in a relationship to keep the sex alive,so maybee no.good question,i guess as long as your fantasize when your with your spouce and you let them know and maybee you both can role play, hmmmm?interesting got me thinking.
2007-03-10 14:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋